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Neighbor scaring me

posted Thu 29, Sep 2016 at 3:01am

Hi, I'm just looking for some opinions on something going on right now with my neighbor. I'm happily married 4 years, we have two kids, things with my husband and I are overall good. We have kno...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Communications in relationships, Sex and Affairs

Long term relationship; should I be leaving for good?

posted Thu 29, Sep 2016 at 1:39am

I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 2 years. We've been together in high school and we're now in our freshman year of college. Our relationship has had many ups and downs and when I probably...

Tags: long-term relationships,advice,asap,boyfriend,leave or stay
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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner, Life transitions, Communications in relationships, A Psychologist's Perspective

What do I do

posted Thu 29, Sep 2016 at 12:52am

Me and my partner have been together for 7 years we have 3 children and one on the way the relationship doesn't feel like a relationship we don't sleep together we sleep separate we don't do anythi...

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Bringing up Children Together, A Psychologist's Perspective

I want to read between the lines...Should I?

posted Wed 28, Sep 2016 at 7:54pm

We've known each other for 2 1/2 yrs. We met thru my work. We live 5 hrs apart. She is a 1st Responder and I'm in outside sales. For the last 12 mos, we've spoken regularly and visited each month. ...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Sex/Intimacy and romance, Friends & Family, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment, Life transitions, Communications in relationships

IS MY WIFE STARTING TO HAVE AN EMOTIONAL AFFAIR?

posted Wed 28, Sep 2016 at 5:13pm

I busted my wife sexting in 2011 with a day care provider. She was complaining that were weren't connecting at the time which is true. The way she went about the whole thing initially was to cast a...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner, Communications in relationships, Sex and Affairs

Hate Mornings and morning talks

posted Wed 28, Sep 2016 at 2:30pm

I have a particular situation. I am NOT a morning person. I would rather spend my drive to work focusing on work, instead of talking about random nothings with my mate. The result of this is a morn...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Getting on Better with my Partner, Mixed Families

Choosing between wife and daughter

posted Wed 28, Sep 2016 at 5:54am

My man who is an amazing boyfriend and father can't figure out how to juggle his six year old daughters needs and me as his potential wife. Not only do i go through baby mama drama but we have to p...

Tags: love,daughter,distance,choices,happiness,selfish,job,income
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Work, Living Apart Together

Interacacial sex

posted Mon 26, Sep 2016 at 12:13pm

All i think about is interacial sex (black men with white women) im white btw im not being over confident but i have good build n genrally quiet good looking most women think anyway. it stemed ...

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Money, Becoming a Parent, Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Having a Child with Additional Needs, Friends & Family, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment, Bringing up Children Together, Mixed Families, Communications in relationships, Sex and Affairs

Need advice

posted Mon 26, Sep 2016 at 1:34am

I have a long distance relationship from 4 years. My partner has a business and that's the reason that he can't move. Also I'm a single mother and I'm trying to give my best for my son. When we sta...

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Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner, Communications in relationships, Sex and Affairs

Should I break up with my boyfriend?

posted Sun 25, Sep 2016 at 6:37pm

He lives in the US and I live in Germany, but we’re both from the same country, although he’s also an american citizen. He’s pursuing a PhD. He says he wants to come to Germany after he gets his de...

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Making a Commitment, Life transitions, A Psychologist's Perspective, Living Apart Together

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my wife doesnt show affection

posted Sun 9, Feb 2014 at 12:18pm

We are married with 1 child 9 years old, been together for 18 years, im 44 and she is 38, I have always instigated sex and over the years I have realised that its always me doing the trying all the...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

I have a boyfriend but can't stop thinking about someone else. Help.

posted Fri 6, Feb 2009 at 8:32pm

Hi there. I have been with my boyfriend on and off for almost 6 years. He is my first love and i care greatly for him. The problem is someone ive known for many years also, we have always had a spa...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Getting on Better with my Partner

Jealousy issues with bf

posted Tue 1, Nov 2011 at 6:45pm

Ive been with my bf for almost 9 years, and although i've always been a jealous person i feel like its now getting out of hand. Just some background info... Years ago I found out he was having an i...

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Affairs and Jealousy

help - we just cant talk without arguing

posted Wed 24, Sep 2008 at 1:12pm

My fella and I have been together for 8 years and have children together. Over the past 4 years we have be gradually been drifting apart with issues from work , neighbours from hell and me not sle...

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Getting on Better with my Partner

confused

posted Thu 8, Dec 2011 at 2:31pm

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 and a half years, we are both only 20 so started dating when we were 16. 10 days before we got together my boyfriend broke up with me and we had been to...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Making a Commitment

Boyfreind caught masturbating in bed while I'm asleep

posted Mon 23, May 2011 at 11:40am

Hi new to this! But just wondering. Iv been with my boyfreind for 6months now and we live in our own flat. Everythings great etc and Yesterday we had sex during The day, and I fell asleep in bed ...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

Partner has fallen out of love with me

posted Wed 11, Apr 2012 at 12:30am

I was with my partner for 3 and a half years. We split up 3 weeks ago. Things weren't going well for a while and I could feel that we were going to break up but it just doesn't feel real at the mom...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy

My boyfriend cannot have sex and has low libido

posted Tue 25, Jun 2013 at 5:30am

My partner and I have been together for 6 months. He told me truthfully at the beginning of our relationship that he has several factors that seem to affect his ability to have sex. He had brain ...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

Is He Leading Me On? I Really Care About Him ...

posted Fri 25, Nov 2011 at 12:15am

Hi all, I'm in need of some relationship advice. I'm feeling really blue about this. So here it is: I've known this wonderful guy for over a year, and was previously with another guy but knew hi...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Making a Commitment

Shoul I Leave Him?

posted Tue 1, Nov 2011 at 10:09am

Hi Guys Im Kinda New To This Site... Okay So Im 16 And Going out with a guy who is 25 ( Yes 9 Years InBetween Us.) 3 Days Ago Was His Birthday, so as usual he picked me up from school with his car...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

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Don't know what to do.....

posted Fri 15, Oct 2010 at 12:22pm

I have had the worst couple of days and am at a loss of what to do. I have recently found out that I am pregnant, about 10 wks and already have a little girl with a disability that I have to care f...

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Affairs and Jealousy

Once bitten twice shy !

posted Fri 15, Oct 2010 at 3:39pm

Me and my boyfriend this january broke up it was a huge shock to me i had no idea why, yes there were some arguments but nothing to warrant a break up. I left the country to work in NY but werever ...

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Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

mixed messages

posted Sat 16, Oct 2010 at 8:08am

my parnter and i have been together for 8 years, we are happy most of the time but lately he has very distant one second he is telling me he wants us to be together then saying he wants stay with h...

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Finding Time for Each Other

Do I stay or go ?

posted Sun 17, Oct 2010 at 8:57pm

Hi Everyone, I love my partner very much and have been together 3 years, however with certain things I doubt. We have sex only once a week which frustrates me I have said I would like it to be ...

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Money, Finding Time for Each Other, Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Making a Commitment

Confused?? Frustrated

posted Fri 22, Oct 2010 at 10:16am

Last weekend I found out that my boyfriend of 3 years had been texting another girl. A bit of background on the situation - the girl is my bf's best mates 'fuck buddy' who his best mate has been ...

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Affairs and Jealousy

Confused.com

posted Sat 23, Oct 2010 at 2:51pm

I broke up with my boyfriend nearly 2 years ago. I loved him so much and still find it difficult without him. But since then i've been sending time, dating, hanging out but nothing serious. I'm jus...

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Making a Commitment

Experimenting/ Sexual fantasies

posted Sat 23, Oct 2010 at 7:38pm

Me and my husband have been together for 4 years, married for 3 years, we have 2 beautiful children, a 3yr old and a baby of 4months, he is 40yrs old and I am 25yrs old. We are happy pretty much mo...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Sex/Intimacy and romance

Long Distance

posted Mon 25, Oct 2010 at 10:12am

Hi, im in a long distance relationship. and i have never met my boyfriend im thinking of going to visit him, yet my mum wont let me. i hate the fact i cant see him and ive done some really stupid t...

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Friends & Family

Help

posted Fri 5, Nov 2010 at 6:36pm

i'm hoping you can help, i have recently moved in with my fella and things were going great, however recently i have questioned his sexuality, our sex life is still great, but i have found myself q...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

Just keep getting messed over

posted Sat 6, Nov 2010 at 6:53am

I haven't been here in a while but lately me and my boyfriend have been going through the same problems I thought we're over. I can't seem to understand how someone say they love you but turn aroun...

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Affairs and Jealousy

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