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The Relationship Forum is provided for visitors who are seeking advice and support from the community in relation to relationship issues. The aim of the forum is to help you to understand and explore your situation by talking to others who may be going through, or have experienced a similar situation. The Relationship Forum is moderated by a team of counsellors with lots of experience of helping couples as they work things out in their relationship. They facilitate the forum, providing guidance and additional help wherever needed.

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Married, 3 kids, another interest?!

posted Mon 20, May 2013 at 3:24pm

So, long story short, I've been married for 9 years and have 3 children. My husband is amazing and seriously the guy I always dreamed of having. HOWEVER...that spark...not sure where it is, or for ...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Affairs & Jealousy

STILL IN LOVE BUT V'CONFUSED!

posted Mon 20, May 2013 at 3:06pm

Hi there, I have posted on here a few times before - this post is very relevant to my other called - 'overcoming the Mistake' (Please have a look if you can) My confusion is based very much...

Tags: VERY grateful of your time! Please let me know what you think,thank you!
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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Affairs & Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

What to do now! im going Crazy!

posted Mon 20, May 2013 at 11:55am

in my past relationships i have always been walked over and cheated on. this has always left me feeling paranoid and found it hard to trust anybody. until nearly 2 years ago i met a guy ( who i am ...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Affairs & Jealousy

Need Guidance...fast

posted Mon 20, May 2013 at 1:39am

Me and my ex gf have been off and on for about 4 years now, and usually after we break up i never want her back and i dont care if we are friends or not. But for some odd reason this time is diffre...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Affairs & Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

Another guy

posted Sun 19, May 2013 at 4:43pm

I have been I a relationship for 5 yearsand just moved in with my boyfriend for the first time 6mo ago and am pretty happy. I am only 22 years old. My boyfriend is very laid back and chilled. He l...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Affairs & Jealousy

So unhappy in relationship, what do I do?

posted Sat 18, May 2013 at 12:43pm

Hi all. I'm new to this forum and am really hoping someone can guide me in the correct direction. I have been with my partner for 5 years, since I was 18. He's now 28. It was all a bit whirlwin...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Getting on Better with my Partner, Bringing up Children Together

Should the penetration hurt 1st time and not the 2nd time a girl who had only 3 months worth of sex life ever few years ago?

posted Sat 18, May 2013 at 10:28am

I got married few days ago. The girl is 30. She was married back in 2010 for only 3 months and then got divorced. She has told me that she was a virgin at the time of that marriage. After the break...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Affairs & Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner

Confused, hurt..am I reading too much into it?

posted Fri 17, May 2013 at 4:59pm

I am feeling so hurt and confused and don't know where to turn. I have just discovered that my partner of 18 years has been in contact with the first woman he had sex with. Of course, I knew abou...

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Was it actually just ONE time only?! PLEASE HELP ME FIGURE THIS ONE OUT :(

posted Fri 17, May 2013 at 11:09am

Hi there, I have posted on here a few times regarding an issue that occurred about 5weeks ago! My partner and i have had quite a toxic relationship for some time due to a clash of various issue...

Tags: Im WILL NOT consider moving on with him IF this has happened before!
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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Affairs & Jealousy, Making a Commitment

I have a boyfriend but I have feelings for another guy

posted Thu 16, May 2013 at 5:27pm

Ok so I have been with my boyfriend for almost two years and they have been amazing. Unfortunately at work there is this other guy that I really like and he really likes me he calls me baby, babe e...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Affairs & Jealousy

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Is He Leading Me On? I Really Care About Him ...

posted Fri 25, Nov 2011 at 12:15am

Hi all, I'm in need of some relationship advice. I'm feeling really blue about this. So here it is: I've known this wonderful guy for over a year, and was previously with another guy but knew hi...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Affairs & Jealousy, Making a Commitment

help - we just cant talk without arguing

posted Wed 24, Sep 2008 at 1:12pm

My fella and I have been together for 8 years and have children together. Over the past 4 years we have be gradually been drifting apart with issues from work , neighbours from hell and me not sle...

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Getting on Better with my Partner

Shoul I Leave Him?

posted Tue 1, Nov 2011 at 10:09am

Hi Guys Im Kinda New To This Site... Okay So Im 16 And Going out with a guy who is 25 ( Yes 9 Years InBetween Us.) 3 Days Ago Was His Birthday, so as usual he picked me up from school with his car...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance

Jealousy issues with bf

posted Tue 1, Nov 2011 at 6:45pm

Ive been with my bf for almost 9 years, and although i've always been a jealous person i feel like its now getting out of hand. Just some background info... Years ago I found out he was having an i...

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Affairs & Jealousy

I met another guy during a break up, but now my bf and I are back together, help!

posted Mon 21, Nov 2011 at 5:37pm

My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and 5 months now. The majority of that time we have lived together also. We've had ups and downs that have led us to break up several times (his fa...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Affairs & Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

confused

posted Thu 8, Dec 2011 at 2:31pm

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 and a half years, we are both only 20 so started dating when we were 16. 10 days before we got together my boyfriend broke up with me and we had been to...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Making a Commitment

Boyfreind caught masturbating in bed while I'm asleep

posted Mon 23, May 2011 at 11:40am

Hi new to this! But just wondering. Iv been with my boyfreind for 6months now and we live in our own flat. Everythings great etc and Yesterday we had sex during The day, and I fell asleep in bed ...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance

webcam

posted Sat 28, Jan 2012 at 10:12am

I have been in a relationship with my partner for a year and moved in with him 3 months ago. I have just discovered that he is a member on a swinging website and that he masturbates online over a w...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Affairs & Jealousy

Is it him or me???

posted Tue 13, Mar 2012 at 10:51pm

I've been with my partner for over 7 years and we have a young baby now and I'm back at work, I went back only weeks after her birth and I'm trying to juggle home work and baby. We have exchanged ...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance

Partner has fallen out of love with me

posted Wed 11, Apr 2012 at 12:30am

I was with my partner for 3 and a half years. We split up 3 weeks ago. Things weren't going well for a while and I could feel that we were going to break up but it just doesn't feel real at the mom...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Affairs & Jealousy

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He never has money

posted Thu 12, Jan 2012 at 7:40pm

I am a saver, I always have been ever since I was a teenager earning £20 a week by babysitting on Friday nights. I am 22 now and have managed to put away a considerable amount of money for my futur...

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Money, Making a Commitment

I dont want a baby

posted Wed 11, Jan 2012 at 5:19pm

To cut a long story short, I have been with my husband just over 2 years but weve only been married a few months. There is just over 5 years in age difference between us. When we first met the su...

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Becoming a Parent, Having a Child with Additional Needs, Bringing up Children Together

Is this relationship worth fighting for?

posted Sat 14, Jan 2012 at 11:59pm

Hi all, I've been in a relationship with a chap for 4 years. he's a really good guy, very sensitive and compassionate. We can have a great laugh with eachother about the small things which is great...

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Divorced man with children

posted Thu 12, Jan 2012 at 1:08pm

I have been with him for 3 years, he has 4 children and i am looking for him to comitt to me now. I would like to get married and have a child of our own. He says he would love to marry me but can'...

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Becoming a Parent

Separated from my wife

posted Sun 15, Jan 2012 at 2:16pm

My wife and I have been married for 8 years, together for 13. In the last 3 or 4 years things haven’t always been great, we have bickered, both had periods of unhappiness and become more distant w...

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My boyfriend doesn't seem to be interested in sex anymore

posted Mon 16, Jan 2012 at 5:23am

So, my boyfriend and I have been on and off again for nearly 7 years. I went overseas for a year and when I got back we decided we definitely still love each other and want this to be long term, an...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance

Can someone tell me its worth it, please?

posted Sun 15, Jan 2012 at 12:43pm

Long story short a guy hasn't really treated great me at the start of the relationship; he lied to me about seeing his ex. Nothing happened but I'm just insecure with them being friends and worried...

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Affairs & Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

Feeling trapped

posted Sat 18, Apr 2009 at 1:36pm

I'm 27 years old and have been with my 33 year old boyfriend for 7 years. We live together and have a beautiful, happy healthy 16 month old son but I'm feeling increasingly 'trapped' in a relations...

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Becoming a Parent, Getting on Better with my Partner

at a`loss

posted Sun 19, Apr 2009 at 10:30pm

my wife of nearly 2 years, refuses to live with me at our family home and still lives with her parents with her 2 children from a previous relationships. I at a total loss as to why she wont move i...

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Becoming a Parent, Finding Time for Each Other, Sex/Intimacy & romance, Getting on Better with my Partner

Long distance relationships

posted Tue 21, Apr 2009 at 4:23pm

A few years ago I dated a girl and we went out for a year and a half. We broke up and in the time missed each other a lot. I then got a job overseas and just before I left we got back together ag...

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Finding Time for Each Other
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