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Help! My boyfriend is cheating with an escort!

posted Wed 1, Oct 2014 at 8:47pm

Hey I need some advice and I hope some one here can help me sort my head out. I just put my boyfriend's number in to snitchbook.co.uk a couple of days ago and received a reply today saying he has b...

Tags: escort,boyfriend,snitchbook
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Sex and Affairs

How should i interpret this?

posted Wed 1, Oct 2014 at 7:30pm

Hi, this is my first post, looking for advice. Ive been with my partner for almost two years after being single for 17 years. I had a bad marriage break up and was left totally shattered and lost ...

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Trust issues

posted Wed 1, Oct 2014 at 1:38pm

I havebeen in a relationship with my partner for over seven years now and we are expecting our first baby, I made a mistake and cheated over a year ago and now he finds it hard to trust me which i...

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Becoming a Parent, Getting on Better with my Partner, Sex and Affairs

problems in the bedroom

posted Tue 30, Sep 2014 at 8:49pm

Background: My bf has no libido, but takes care of my needs in bed. I have been without sex for 7 days (due to my period) so I'm really in the mood and need it. I ask my bf for sex and he says ...

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First love came back into my life

posted Tue 30, Sep 2014 at 4:31pm

Hi everyone, just need some unbiased advice. I met my first love at school. We were 14 years old when we started dating and I fell in love with him. We had a spark, a connection and although it ...

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He's Gangster

posted Tue 30, Sep 2014 at 1:12pm

Hi guys!!! Can anyone tell me?? A shy girl who already fall in love with an annoying boy who is gangster.

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Weird Relationship

posted Tue 30, Sep 2014 at 1:08pm

Hi! I'm Glamour and I don't know all about love relationship. There's one boy named Evan and he's my close friend. I started to fall in love with him but I don't know how to tell him how I feel bec...

Tags: Weird Relationship
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Life transitions

In love with a guy who have a girlfriend.

posted Tue 30, Sep 2014 at 1:03pm

Hi! I'm Glamour. I happened to fall in love with a guy named Evan who already have girlfriend. I wish I couldn't close to him but I can't help it. I wanted to be with him as long as I'm happy.

Tags: Relationship Sad
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Communications in relationships

Long Distance Relationship - Feelings

posted Mon 29, Sep 2014 at 9:19pm

Hi, Im writing for abit of advice. I've been with my girlfriend for 7 months now. This girl is amazing. She's everything I want in a partner. Shes thoughtful, kind, beautiful. I think she's t...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment, Life transitions, Communications in relationships, Living Apart Together

help!

posted Mon 29, Sep 2014 at 4:12pm

We have been together 3 years, I am 18 he is 21. We have only slept with each other and at first i said I was fine with it. I'm starting to doubt that I want to only sleep with one person and feel ...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Making a Commitment, Life transitions, Communications in relationships, Sex and Affairs

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Jealousy issues with bf

posted Tue 1, Nov 2011 at 6:45pm

Ive been with my bf for almost 9 years, and although i've always been a jealous person i feel like its now getting out of hand. Just some background info... Years ago I found out he was having an i...

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Affairs and Jealousy

Is He Leading Me On? I Really Care About Him ...

posted Fri 25, Nov 2011 at 12:15am

Hi all, I'm in need of some relationship advice. I'm feeling really blue about this. So here it is: I've known this wonderful guy for over a year, and was previously with another guy but knew hi...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Making a Commitment

help - we just cant talk without arguing

posted Wed 24, Sep 2008 at 1:12pm

My fella and I have been together for 8 years and have children together. Over the past 4 years we have be gradually been drifting apart with issues from work , neighbours from hell and me not sle...

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Getting on Better with my Partner

Shoul I Leave Him?

posted Tue 1, Nov 2011 at 10:09am

Hi Guys Im Kinda New To This Site... Okay So Im 16 And Going out with a guy who is 25 ( Yes 9 Years InBetween Us.) 3 Days Ago Was His Birthday, so as usual he picked me up from school with his car...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

I met another guy during a break up, but now my bf and I are back together, help!

posted Mon 21, Nov 2011 at 5:37pm

My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and 5 months now. The majority of that time we have lived together also. We've had ups and downs that have led us to break up several times (his fa...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

confused

posted Thu 8, Dec 2011 at 2:31pm

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 and a half years, we are both only 20 so started dating when we were 16. 10 days before we got together my boyfriend broke up with me and we had been to...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Making a Commitment

Boyfreind caught masturbating in bed while I'm asleep

posted Mon 23, May 2011 at 11:40am

Hi new to this! But just wondering. Iv been with my boyfreind for 6months now and we live in our own flat. Everythings great etc and Yesterday we had sex during The day, and I fell asleep in bed ...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

webcam

posted Sat 28, Jan 2012 at 10:12am

I have been in a relationship with my partner for a year and moved in with him 3 months ago. I have just discovered that he is a member on a swinging website and that he masturbates online over a w...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy

Is it him or me???

posted Tue 13, Mar 2012 at 10:51pm

I've been with my partner for over 7 years and we have a young baby now and I'm back at work, I went back only weeks after her birth and I'm trying to juggle home work and baby. We have exchanged ...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

Partner has fallen out of love with me

posted Wed 11, Apr 2012 at 12:30am

I was with my partner for 3 and a half years. We split up 3 weeks ago. Things weren't going well for a while and I could feel that we were going to break up but it just doesn't feel real at the mom...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy

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Irrational & paranoid?

posted Mon 28, May 2012 at 9:45pm

Hi I'd love some opinions on this to straighten my head out if possible.. Thanks guys, see below... :) To summarise, me and my girlfriend are in a new, exciting, loved-up relationship, and we...

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Affairs and Jealousy

My BoyFriend has attachment disorder How can i deal with it?

posted Tue 29, May 2012 at 12:53pm

This is the first time i have ever wrote in something like this but i really feel like i need some advice thats not from friends family etc. So basically i have been with my boyfriend for around...

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How do you get over betrayal??

posted Thu 31, May 2012 at 9:19pm

Over 12 months ago, a new friend of mine began to get very friendly with my husband to be. She was always constantly texting hubby, of which he did not discourage. As far as I know the texts were...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner

Never wanting to give up... advice please

posted Sun 3, Jun 2012 at 4:36pm

I know everyone on here believes there own relationship problems to be unique but maybe in this case they really are a little different to the normal... I do not wish to bore anyone with the det...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Making a Commitment

Please give me some advice!!

posted Mon 4, Jun 2012 at 10:17pm

I've done something awful and I don't know what to do, I've been with my parter 2 years and we have recently moved into our first home together. I love him and I know he loves me, long story short ...

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Affairs and Jealousy

Night shift boyfriends lost his sex drive!!

posted Sun 3, Jun 2012 at 7:10am

I am using this as a way of helping my relationship... because I am sick of not talking to anyone about it and keeping it all in!!! I have been with my bf less than a year. He is my one, the man I ...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Sex/Intimacy and romance

DEVASTATED, FEEL SICK & BETRAYED

posted Wed 6, Jun 2012 at 2:03pm

I have been with my partner for 3 and a half years and we have a baby together, I also have 2 older children. I had a (very) rare night away over the weekend and yesterday discovered that my partne...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

Communication issue

posted Wed 6, Jun 2012 at 9:34pm

Hi Can someone give me an opinion on whether I am right or wrong with my argument with my girlfriend? To set the scene.. We only see each other on weekends usually, and she is a very very lai...

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Work, Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner

I need your opinion.. :) really need it.im hoping,but I dont really know wht to do.

posted Mon 4, Jun 2012 at 7:43am

Ive known this guy,he is a good and respectful person.and I like everythin bout him.ive said I like him and he says he likes me too but hes not sure how this working. I can plan but I always dont h...

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Work, Finding Time for Each Other, Affairs and Jealousy, Friends & Family, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment, Mixed Families

email account dilema

posted Wed 6, Jun 2012 at 8:17pm

If you were to open your laptop/computer one afternoon and found your partners email account opened (i.e they had not signed the night before)would you; A - Sign out straight away B - Quickly s...

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Affairs and Jealousy

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