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My second relationship. Few questions.

posted Mon 25, Jul 2016 at 6:05pm

I am 28 and this is only my second relationship. We live with one another as she moved from michigan to live with me to pursue her career and be with me. I enjoy our relationship alot. She is a gen...

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Money, Housework, Communications in relationships, A Psychologist's Perspective

Think he's more serious than he lets on

posted Sun 24, Jul 2016 at 4:09pm

So I met this guy a few weeks ago. We met at a bar and we were both a bit drunk. We slept together, sexually and nonsexually, and he made sure I gave him my number. He kept saying he really wanted ...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Making a Commitment, Communications in relationships

Needing help and opinions!

posted Sat 23, Jul 2016 at 7:16pm

Hi, I need some help. Me and my boyfriend have a normal relationship and he is a great guy. He treats me well. But he made a mistake. A couple days ago I was sleeping and I woke up to him rubbing m...

Tags: Dating
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Sex/Intimacy and romance

Obsessed

posted Sat 23, Jul 2016 at 4:59am

My fiancé is obsessed and fixated on certain things. He obsesses over the time he goes to sleep and when the time is getting near he begins to get anxiety. He obsesses over pain and illness. He ob...

Tags: obsession,fixation,aspergers,inflexible
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Finding Time for Each Other, Getting on Better with my Partner, A Psychologist's Perspective, Living Apart Together

No sex life

posted Thu 21, Jul 2016 at 12:27pm

I have been with my boyfriend for 28 months, he lives with me & my kids. We have no sex life - and by this I mean nothing other than pecks and cuddles for 18 months now. It's depressing, it took 15...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

busy boyfriend?

posted Wed 20, Jul 2016 at 5:51pm

so my boyfriend of 2 years (in 2 weeks) plays cricket and it's currently the height of the cricket season and he's been playing every Saturday since May, so I work on a Saturday and I'm okay with h...

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Work, Finding Time for Each Other, Friends & Family, Making a Commitment, Word from the street, Communications in relationships, A Psychologist's Perspective

Partner is addicted to porn

posted Tue 19, Jul 2016 at 8:32am

Me&my partner are both in our early 30s and have been together for a little over 2 years. We've been living together for almost a year. I love my partner and he loves me too, we share lots of cu...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Sex and Affairs

confused what to do

posted Mon 18, Jul 2016 at 8:05pm

ok so ive been married with my husband for 7 years now. Its been really rough these past 4 years! pretty much since my son was conceived my sex drive just disappeared it was also painful to have se...

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Becoming a Parent, Finding Time for Each Other, Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner, Bringing up Children Together, Communications in relationships

Seeking for enlightment.. i feel jealous and scared loosing my bf

posted Mon 18, Jul 2016 at 7:43pm

Hi Im skylar. 34 yrs old single. I have a bf through online who happens to be 12yrs younger than me. His 22 yrs old. We haven't seen each other yet.. we had a cool off for 7 days after that he ca...

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Affairs and Jealousy

Stuck in the middle

posted Mon 18, Jul 2016 at 11:59am

Hi, so I am a 32 year old female and my fiance is 25. We live together and are due to get married next month. The problem is that my parents don't like my fiance. I feel like some of this is jus...

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Money, Work, Friends & Family, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment, Communications in relationships, A Psychologist's Perspective

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my wife doesnt show affection

posted Sun 9, Feb 2014 at 12:18pm

We are married with 1 child 9 years old, been together for 18 years, im 44 and she is 38, I have always instigated sex and over the years I have realised that its always me doing the trying all the...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

I have a boyfriend but can't stop thinking about someone else. Help.

posted Fri 6, Feb 2009 at 8:32pm

Hi there. I have been with my boyfriend on and off for almost 6 years. He is my first love and i care greatly for him. The problem is someone ive known for many years also, we have always had a spa...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Getting on Better with my Partner

Jealousy issues with bf

posted Tue 1, Nov 2011 at 6:45pm

Ive been with my bf for almost 9 years, and although i've always been a jealous person i feel like its now getting out of hand. Just some background info... Years ago I found out he was having an i...

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Affairs and Jealousy

help - we just cant talk without arguing

posted Wed 24, Sep 2008 at 1:12pm

My fella and I have been together for 8 years and have children together. Over the past 4 years we have be gradually been drifting apart with issues from work , neighbours from hell and me not sle...

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Getting on Better with my Partner

confused

posted Thu 8, Dec 2011 at 2:31pm

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 and a half years, we are both only 20 so started dating when we were 16. 10 days before we got together my boyfriend broke up with me and we had been to...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Making a Commitment

Boyfreind caught masturbating in bed while I'm asleep

posted Mon 23, May 2011 at 11:40am

Hi new to this! But just wondering. Iv been with my boyfreind for 6months now and we live in our own flat. Everythings great etc and Yesterday we had sex during The day, and I fell asleep in bed ...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

Partner has fallen out of love with me

posted Wed 11, Apr 2012 at 12:30am

I was with my partner for 3 and a half years. We split up 3 weeks ago. Things weren't going well for a while and I could feel that we were going to break up but it just doesn't feel real at the mom...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy

My boyfriend cannot have sex and has low libido

posted Tue 25, Jun 2013 at 5:30am

My partner and I have been together for 6 months. He told me truthfully at the beginning of our relationship that he has several factors that seem to affect his ability to have sex. He had brain ...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

Is He Leading Me On? I Really Care About Him ...

posted Fri 25, Nov 2011 at 12:15am

Hi all, I'm in need of some relationship advice. I'm feeling really blue about this. So here it is: I've known this wonderful guy for over a year, and was previously with another guy but knew hi...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Making a Commitment

Shoul I Leave Him?

posted Tue 1, Nov 2011 at 10:09am

Hi Guys Im Kinda New To This Site... Okay So Im 16 And Going out with a guy who is 25 ( Yes 9 Years InBetween Us.) 3 Days Ago Was His Birthday, so as usual he picked me up from school with his car...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

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we both love each other but she wont be with me

posted Tue 25, Aug 2009 at 3:36pm

we have been together for 2 and a half years now. im 22 years old and live with my parents and she is 20 years old and lives with her parents. but recently i lost my job. a few weeks later she then...

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Friends & Family, Getting on Better with my Partner

what is going on in her mind?

posted Fri 28, Aug 2009 at 9:33pm

My partner & I were together 4 years & 3months (I am 42 she is 34) and we were seemingly in a very strongly bonded relationship. However, a fortnight ago she broke the relationship off stating ...

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Work, Affairs and Jealousy, Making a Commitment

relationships

posted Mon 31, Aug 2009 at 10:03am

ive been with my boyfriend a year now,we have had some bad times mainly with me been jealous ,and lack of trust ..i no it is something from my past that is the problem, and now makes him go out dri...

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Affairs and Jealousy

what do i do???

posted Wed 2, Sep 2009 at 6:14am

well we are 24 and 23 have been married for 2years and been together for 3 we have a boy who is 16mnths and another that is 5weeks, we havnt been good together since last year and she recently told...

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Becoming a Parent, Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Friends & Family

anger and resentment and love

posted Wed 2, Sep 2009 at 9:53am

i feel like im stuck in a rut. all my fionce wants to do is argue with me. he explodes over the tiniest things and i dont understand why. i think to myself if he loves me why is he yelling at me an...

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Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

where do i start!

posted Thu 3, Sep 2009 at 11:12am

Apologies in advance, I didn’t realise this post would be so long! I have been married for three years to my wife, we first met 11 and have lived together for 6 years. After getting married in ...

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Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner

I still feel very very lonely and stupid.

posted Sun 6, Sep 2009 at 11:36pm

I don't count the days anymore ,but, I remember the day she said it was over so I could work it out if I wanted to be I don't . The date was 08/08/07 which was the day after my birthday. Although ...

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Affairs and Jealousy

Internet dating, a real bad thing!!!!

posted Mon 7, Sep 2009 at 10:58am

Ok here goes I am in need of some advice here as I am at a real loss to know what to do for the best. OK I met my current girlfriend on an Internet date site. We had lots in common, did fun thi...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Making a Commitment

Age Gap problem in the relationship

posted Wed 9, Sep 2009 at 1:09pm

Hi, I am a 40 year old woman and my partner is 26 and we have been in a relationship for 16 months now. Intially, when we first got together, I thought that it would be a relationship just ba...

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Making a Commitment

just cant get over my cheating ex

posted Wed 9, Sep 2009 at 8:07pm

hey guys just need some advice and help. i was in a relationship for nearly 4 years and recently just split up. she cheated on me. she lied and said she was staying in her sisters house for few day...

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Affairs and Jealousy

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