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Long Distance- Help

posted Sun 25, Jan 2015 at 2:11pm

so really all it is, is that I've been with my boyfriend for about a year now and were happy and all but we live so far from each other and we rarely get to see each other and I don't cheat and nei...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Affairs and Jealousy, Communications in relationships, Living Apart Together

Insecurities are building up

posted Sun 25, Jan 2015 at 11:48am

It will be my boyfriends and I's 2 year anniversary in March, and about 7 months ago, I found out my partner had lied to me about doing cocaine. He knows my views towards drugs like that, and i did...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner, Communications in relationships, A Psychologist's Perspective, Sex and Affairs

Not sure if its worth the effort anymore. Where do I stand?

posted Sat 24, Jan 2015 at 7:15am

My gf and I have been together almost 4yrs. When we started we were very intimate with each other and weren't afraid of PDAs. We have had some communication issues which strained our relationship f...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment, Life transitions, Communications in relationships, Sex and Affairs

Ex-Boyfriend Problems. Please help

posted Sat 24, Jan 2015 at 4:53am

So my ex boyfriend broke up with me last year in July, for the second time because I am an atheist and he is a Christian. But we've continued to be friends and we've continued talking with each oth...

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Communications in relationships

The 30 year old surrounded by happy relationships, weddings & baby showers...

posted Sat 24, Jan 2015 at 2:03am

Okay. So here it goes... I am in a 3 year relationship with a great guy (yeah I know terrible right). He is loving, caring, stable, family orientated, outdoorsy, kind, calm, hansom man who wa...

Tags: Relationship advise
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Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment, Communications in relationships

I'm such a mess!

posted Fri 23, Jan 2015 at 7:25pm

I've been with my partner for almost 5 years. We don't live together. This is complicated I don't know how much or how little to say! You'll think I'm an idiot... He works in a little diner,owned ...

Tags: boyfriend,work,family issues,deceit,love,communication,trust
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Money, Work, Finding Time for Each Other, Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment, Life transitions, Communications in relationships

No one to talk to

posted Fri 23, Jan 2015 at 3:08pm

I am a divorced 36 yo man with two young boys. About a year ago I met a woman who is 32. We are in the same profession together at the same employer. We began a friendship that turned into a seriou...

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Affairs and Jealousy, Friends & Family, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment, Communications in relationships, A Psychologist's Perspective

HELP

posted Fri 23, Jan 2015 at 12:34pm

i need some insight on what to do in a relationship situation... i have a boyfriend and i do love him, however there is someone else thats caught my eye which is a friend i hang out with all the ti...

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Affairs and Jealousy, Sex and Affairs

My partner has left

posted Fri 23, Jan 2015 at 11:54am

My partner and I have been living together for 2 years. He has always been secretive and I have found out a few lies that he has told me. For instance, he told me he was divorced but when I moved...

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Affairs and Jealousy

Everything turns into fights

posted Fri 23, Jan 2015 at 8:23am

PROBLEM: Simple things turn into fights, all the time. The following is an example conversation over a simple scheduling matter BACKGROUND: The Boy and Girl are in a relationship a little unde...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Getting on Better with my Partner, Communications in relationships, Living Apart Together

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Jealousy issues with bf

posted Tue 1, Nov 2011 at 6:45pm

Ive been with my bf for almost 9 years, and although i've always been a jealous person i feel like its now getting out of hand. Just some background info... Years ago I found out he was having an i...

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Affairs and Jealousy

Is He Leading Me On? I Really Care About Him ...

posted Fri 25, Nov 2011 at 12:15am

Hi all, I'm in need of some relationship advice. I'm feeling really blue about this. So here it is: I've known this wonderful guy for over a year, and was previously with another guy but knew hi...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Making a Commitment

help - we just cant talk without arguing

posted Wed 24, Sep 2008 at 1:12pm

My fella and I have been together for 8 years and have children together. Over the past 4 years we have be gradually been drifting apart with issues from work , neighbours from hell and me not sle...

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Getting on Better with my Partner

Shoul I Leave Him?

posted Tue 1, Nov 2011 at 10:09am

Hi Guys Im Kinda New To This Site... Okay So Im 16 And Going out with a guy who is 25 ( Yes 9 Years InBetween Us.) 3 Days Ago Was His Birthday, so as usual he picked me up from school with his car...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

I met another guy during a break up, but now my bf and I are back together, help!

posted Mon 21, Nov 2011 at 5:37pm

My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and 5 months now. The majority of that time we have lived together also. We've had ups and downs that have led us to break up several times (his fa...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

confused

posted Thu 8, Dec 2011 at 2:31pm

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 and a half years, we are both only 20 so started dating when we were 16. 10 days before we got together my boyfriend broke up with me and we had been to...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Making a Commitment

Boyfreind caught masturbating in bed while I'm asleep

posted Mon 23, May 2011 at 11:40am

Hi new to this! But just wondering. Iv been with my boyfreind for 6months now and we live in our own flat. Everythings great etc and Yesterday we had sex during The day, and I fell asleep in bed ...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

webcam

posted Sat 28, Jan 2012 at 10:12am

I have been in a relationship with my partner for a year and moved in with him 3 months ago. I have just discovered that he is a member on a swinging website and that he masturbates online over a w...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy

Is it him or me???

posted Tue 13, Mar 2012 at 10:51pm

I've been with my partner for over 7 years and we have a young baby now and I'm back at work, I went back only weeks after her birth and I'm trying to juggle home work and baby. We have exchanged ...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

Partner has fallen out of love with me

posted Wed 11, Apr 2012 at 12:30am

I was with my partner for 3 and a half years. We split up 3 weeks ago. Things weren't going well for a while and I could feel that we were going to break up but it just doesn't feel real at the mom...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy

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Losing each other.......

posted Tue 26, Jul 2011 at 8:12pm

Hello there, I am writing because I feel that me and my partner are losing one another and what we have. We have been together for 7 years now. It is the same sex relationship. It truly scares me t...

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Money, Work, Finding Time for Each Other, Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner

Horrible situation, need helpful advice?

posted Wed 3, Aug 2011 at 4:59pm

Hi This may be a long one! Ive been with my bf for 7 yrs, we have a 3 yr old child together, bf is 26 and im 31. 3 months ago, he went to a friends party, and didnt come back till 9am ( this is...

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Affairs and Jealousy

Is this my fault?

posted Fri 19, Aug 2011 at 2:48pm

My last partner was a lot older than me, but soon after we started seeing each other I found out the he was seeing 3 other girls. One of which he was going to walk up the isle without anyone of us ...

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Money, Becoming a Parent, Affairs and Jealousy

Here we go again

posted Sun 21, Aug 2011 at 8:15pm

I think I am just posting on here so I can make sense of what is happening as I find writing things down helpful but to get some advice would probably help. Before I start, I should say that my hu...

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Work

Hello! Fairly new here, just didn't know where else to turn.

posted Sat 10, Sep 2011 at 8:42am

Hello, I have a reoccurring issue.. with myself I suppose. Now I don't usually go out and tell the internet about my life issues.. hell, I don't tell ANYONE. (This is about to get long xD) An...

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Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

i want more respect

posted Wed 18, Jan 2012 at 4:58pm

im at the end of my tether. i am 8 months pregnant and living abroad with my husband. i have no family or close friends around me. we have had problems in one way or another for so long and it ha...

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Getting on Better with my Partner

Still trying to get over an ex

posted Wed 25, Jan 2012 at 10:19pm

Basically i was with my ex for a year or so in 2009 and then after a year, he turned round and said he wasn't interested since then we've been off and on in contact, seeing eachother etc.. Up until...

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Affairs and Jealousy

So upset

posted Tue 31, Jan 2012 at 3:45pm

I've been with my Fiance for nearly four years and been engaged for three. He was meant to move in with me, he lives 200 miles away. This didn't happen because his farther died and even when his re...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

(Advice Needed) Is It Possible To Be Too Stressed For A Relationship?

posted Wed 1, Feb 2012 at 1:20pm

Hi guys. My girlfriend of 3 years just broke up with me after a nasty argument. She forgave me for it but she said that she doesn't want a boyfriend because ever since she started studying this int...

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A difficult situation

posted Sun 5, Feb 2012 at 12:00am

New member here, About 5 months ago I started university, I'm a mature student studying on a course were the majority of people are 30+. Shortly after starting (about a month) I met a girl in...

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Making a Commitment

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