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Tips for final breakup

posted Thu 28, May 2015 at 1:52pm

Me and my best friend were kind of brother and sister. He is 2 yrs younger than me.We are of same height. He then kissed me one-day and next day he starting touching my breast and smooching. And...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment, A Psychologist's Perspective, Sex and Affairs

Me and Ex broke up what should I do?

posted Thu 28, May 2015 at 1:18pm

Me and my ex broke up a month ago over a stupid petty argument. We have been together on and off for 5 years and I was in love with him no matter what he has done. A couple of weeks ago he was acti...

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Bringing up Children Together, Communications in relationships

I'm in love with my best friend and he still has feelings for me but he has a girlfriend?

posted Thu 28, May 2015 at 3:52am

So let me start off by saying that his girlfriend is actually a girl that I was close friends with, but started going after him after I told her How I felt about him. They just met and have been go...

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Affairs and Jealousy, Friends & Family, Communications in relationships

Depression in my relationship

posted Thu 28, May 2015 at 2:52am

Me and my partner were together for 2 years, we have travelled the world together many times and were madly in love. He comes from a rich, very close family.. He has always tried to live up to thei...

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not sad or hurt anymore just angry

posted Wed 27, May 2015 at 8:31pm

I have been with the father of my two sons for about eight years more on than off....our relationship started off as just friends then became more but we both had other people we were seeing after ...

Tags: unloved,unwanted,selfish,confused,needs help
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Housework, Finding Time for Each Other, Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment, Bringing up Children Together, Mixed Families, Communications in relationships, Sex and Affairs

HERE COMES THE BRIDE....6 YRS LATER!

posted Wed 27, May 2015 at 8:26pm

IM ENGAGED TO MY BOYFIREND OF 6 YRS. I AM GLAD WE DID WAIT AS LONG AS WE DID BUT I DO FEEL THAT SINCE WE HAVE WAITED THIS LONG THE EXCITEMENT AND THE SURPRISE AND THE THOUGHT INTO GETTING ON ONE KN...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment, Life transitions, Communications in relationships, A Psychologist's Perspective, Sex and Affairs

Advice needed

posted Wed 27, May 2015 at 5:24pm

Me and my partner just went through a trial seperation. So today after 17.5 years we mutually agreed to end our relationship. Its hard to accept but we really had no choice. Reasons for break up in...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Friends & Family, Getting on Better with my Partner, Bringing up Children Together, Mixed Families, Life transitions, A Psychologist's Perspective, Living Apart Together, Sex and Affairs

Advice needed please - bloke I was dating fell out with me! So gutted :-(

posted Wed 27, May 2015 at 2:56pm

Hi, any tips or advice would be appreciated. I been seeing a guy since march - we met online and have been on lots of dates. It was all going great until I messed it up! My past relationships h...

Tags: Argue,men,confused,guarded,upset,please,help
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Getting on Better with my Partner

Commitment or not commitment

posted Wed 27, May 2015 at 2:08pm

Hi All, My bf and I are both 29 and live apart. He has a crazy jet setting career and I am his first serious relationship. We have been together 18 months and for the past 6 I spent about 40% of my...

Tags: commitment,emotions,moving forward,long distance
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Making a Commitment, Life transitions, Living Apart Together

Advice please?!?

posted Wed 27, May 2015 at 1:26pm

Okay so I'm 22 and I met my ex boyfriend when is was 20 nearly two years ago, we started talking on an online dating website, he was in afghan (he's a infantry soldier in the British army) although...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

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Jealousy issues with bf

posted Tue 1, Nov 2011 at 6:45pm

Ive been with my bf for almost 9 years, and although i've always been a jealous person i feel like its now getting out of hand. Just some background info... Years ago I found out he was having an i...

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Affairs and Jealousy

Is He Leading Me On? I Really Care About Him ...

posted Fri 25, Nov 2011 at 12:15am

Hi all, I'm in need of some relationship advice. I'm feeling really blue about this. So here it is: I've known this wonderful guy for over a year, and was previously with another guy but knew hi...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Making a Commitment

help - we just cant talk without arguing

posted Wed 24, Sep 2008 at 1:12pm

My fella and I have been together for 8 years and have children together. Over the past 4 years we have be gradually been drifting apart with issues from work , neighbours from hell and me not sle...

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Getting on Better with my Partner

Shoul I Leave Him?

posted Tue 1, Nov 2011 at 10:09am

Hi Guys Im Kinda New To This Site... Okay So Im 16 And Going out with a guy who is 25 ( Yes 9 Years InBetween Us.) 3 Days Ago Was His Birthday, so as usual he picked me up from school with his car...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

I met another guy during a break up, but now my bf and I are back together, help!

posted Mon 21, Nov 2011 at 5:37pm

My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and 5 months now. The majority of that time we have lived together also. We've had ups and downs that have led us to break up several times (his fa...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

confused

posted Thu 8, Dec 2011 at 2:31pm

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 and a half years, we are both only 20 so started dating when we were 16. 10 days before we got together my boyfriend broke up with me and we had been to...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Making a Commitment

Boyfreind caught masturbating in bed while I'm asleep

posted Mon 23, May 2011 at 11:40am

Hi new to this! But just wondering. Iv been with my boyfreind for 6months now and we live in our own flat. Everythings great etc and Yesterday we had sex during The day, and I fell asleep in bed ...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

webcam

posted Sat 28, Jan 2012 at 10:12am

I have been in a relationship with my partner for a year and moved in with him 3 months ago. I have just discovered that he is a member on a swinging website and that he masturbates online over a w...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy

Is it him or me???

posted Tue 13, Mar 2012 at 10:51pm

I've been with my partner for over 7 years and we have a young baby now and I'm back at work, I went back only weeks after her birth and I'm trying to juggle home work and baby. We have exchanged ...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

Partner has fallen out of love with me

posted Wed 11, Apr 2012 at 12:30am

I was with my partner for 3 and a half years. We split up 3 weeks ago. Things weren't going well for a while and I could feel that we were going to break up but it just doesn't feel real at the mom...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy

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What should I do?

posted Wed 10, Feb 2010 at 10:38pm

I have been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years now, we have a 1 year old child who we both adore. My bf works away most of the time, and last year he nearly had a fling with his seceretary but I ...

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Affairs and Jealousy

Should i end it...advice plz asap

posted Sat 13, Feb 2010 at 5:01pm

I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years. For the first 7 months there was no problems after 5 months we got engaged and @ 7 months i found out i was pregnant. A couple weeks after finding out i w...

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Affairs and Jealousy

Should I be in this relationship right now?

posted Sun 14, Feb 2010 at 3:12am

Hi, I have been with my partner for a year and 1 month now. 9 months into our relationship I went away to university. My partner reassured me over and over again that he wanted to make it wo...

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Affairs and Jealousy, Friends & Family

Using the Internet

posted Thu 18, Feb 2010 at 1:47pm

This is a difficult one. My new husband goes on the internet on our laptop all the time. He researches alot of porn. I know this by checking his history. As soon as I go out or go to work he is...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

we are at breaking point relationship of 2 and a half years

posted Thu 18, Feb 2010 at 9:38pm

today i received a letter from a debt agency for £1000 in the mail, he went crazy, i told him that the debt is over 6 years and i would go to get advice from citizens advice bureau but he wasn't ha...

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used to happy now feel so low/depressed

posted Fri 19, Feb 2010 at 2:48am

hi there i have read other pepole's problems on here and there are some pretty sad one's. i would say that my problem probably seems small in comparison and i have always lent an ear to others wi...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

Lack of affection and appreciation - help!

posted Thu 25, Feb 2010 at 4:58pm

I’m in a one year relationship with a man I love (and live with). But I’m starting to feel insecure and as though my needs aren’t being met. Halfway through last year my partner began to go thro...

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Getting on Better with my Partner

Have I blown it?

posted Tue 16, Mar 2010 at 10:49am

Sent email to partner last night basically accussing him of having more time for the internet than me, this is how it feels to me.He hasn't replied to the mail but sent a text saying I was insultin...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner

Hurt

posted Fri 19, Mar 2010 at 3:48am

I have similar situation!!My husband and I have always had a great sex life!!He new the man I was previously married to before him, and knew of the situations that I was put in... so when we got to...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner

Lost

posted Mon 22, Mar 2010 at 10:04am

I am 33 with a son of 3.5 years from a husband from a different community after a 1.5 year courtship post friendship in workplace. He was always very overbearing and over possessive even before mar...

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Becoming a Parent, Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Friends & Family, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

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