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Made a huge mistake in dumping my beloved boyfriend - what to do?

posted Mon 21, Apr 2014 at 7:58am

Ive made a terrible mistake and ended up dumping my beloved boyfriend nearly 2 weeks ago now. We had been together almost 9 months. Im his first long term relationship in many years... He is q...

Tags: break up,getting back together
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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

Military wife adjustment

posted Sun 20, Apr 2014 at 11:45pm

Me a my husband have been together for 4 years married for ten months and it hasn't Been all good. Yes we had our good times in the being of the relationship but know it just seems to die down. Fo...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Getting on Better with my Partner

In love with a man who wants more

posted Sun 20, Apr 2014 at 11:30pm

I have been a relationship for over 10 years now and have a child. I am deeply in love with him and can't imagine him out of my life. Lately he has made it known to me and our child that he has bec...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Getting on Better with my Partner

My ex hates us because of new girlfriend?!!! URGENT!!

posted Sun 20, Apr 2014 at 5:13am

My ex and I divorced in 2013. He has started dating this new woman. She is 38 and has 3 kids. My ex is a millionaire good looking man (hes a womanizer). They have been dating for 6 months after th...

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Ejaculate within 20 seconds

posted Sat 19, Apr 2014 at 1:40pm

long story short, I've been talking to a girl and she wants to have sex. This is really exciting for me because I'm actually a virgin, but I have problem with PE. I don't know what to do. A whil...

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Dating

posted Fri 18, Apr 2014 at 5:24pm

I have come through a very bad and turbulent time in my life due to problems with a controlling partner but finally found the courage to leave, am on my feet again, have a lovely home, good job and...

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Advice

posted Fri 18, Apr 2014 at 2:19pm

Hey, me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years, we live together and we love each other very much and I know he cares about me, but I'm a very emotional person and very insecure in what I ...

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Advice

posted Fri 18, Apr 2014 at 12:22pm

Hi! I need advice! I met my boyfriend online and about a year ago and we've been officially together for 7 months. We love each other very much and we've tried to make the mest out of the distanc...

Tags: online,longdistance relationship,family,religion
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Friends & Family

Please Can someone Help me?

posted Thu 17, Apr 2014 at 11:53am

Hi there im new,.. I live with my Girlfriend and her parents at her parents house were been together for nearly 2 years.. Last night after I finished work I came home and she told me something r...

Tags: Threesome,Girlfriend.
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Work, Sex/Intimacy & romance, Affairs & Jealousy

Advice

posted Wed 16, Apr 2014 at 7:05pm

Hi, I've been dating a wonderful girl for 6 months and I love her a lot. When I broke up with my ex I met this girl and another girl at roughly the same time. Not expecting anything to happen...

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Is He Leading Me On? I Really Care About Him ...

posted Fri 25, Nov 2011 at 12:15am

Hi all, I'm in need of some relationship advice. I'm feeling really blue about this. So here it is: I've known this wonderful guy for over a year, and was previously with another guy but knew hi...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Affairs & Jealousy, Making a Commitment

help - we just cant talk without arguing

posted Wed 24, Sep 2008 at 1:12pm

My fella and I have been together for 8 years and have children together. Over the past 4 years we have be gradually been drifting apart with issues from work , neighbours from hell and me not sle...

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Getting on Better with my Partner

Shoul I Leave Him?

posted Tue 1, Nov 2011 at 10:09am

Hi Guys Im Kinda New To This Site... Okay So Im 16 And Going out with a guy who is 25 ( Yes 9 Years InBetween Us.) 3 Days Ago Was His Birthday, so as usual he picked me up from school with his car...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance

Jealousy issues with bf

posted Tue 1, Nov 2011 at 6:45pm

Ive been with my bf for almost 9 years, and although i've always been a jealous person i feel like its now getting out of hand. Just some background info... Years ago I found out he was having an i...

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Affairs & Jealousy

I met another guy during a break up, but now my bf and I are back together, help!

posted Mon 21, Nov 2011 at 5:37pm

My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and 5 months now. The majority of that time we have lived together also. We've had ups and downs that have led us to break up several times (his fa...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Affairs & Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

confused

posted Thu 8, Dec 2011 at 2:31pm

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 and a half years, we are both only 20 so started dating when we were 16. 10 days before we got together my boyfriend broke up with me and we had been to...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Making a Commitment

Boyfreind caught masturbating in bed while I'm asleep

posted Mon 23, May 2011 at 11:40am

Hi new to this! But just wondering. Iv been with my boyfreind for 6months now and we live in our own flat. Everythings great etc and Yesterday we had sex during The day, and I fell asleep in bed ...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance

webcam

posted Sat 28, Jan 2012 at 10:12am

I have been in a relationship with my partner for a year and moved in with him 3 months ago. I have just discovered that he is a member on a swinging website and that he masturbates online over a w...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Affairs & Jealousy

Is it him or me???

posted Tue 13, Mar 2012 at 10:51pm

I've been with my partner for over 7 years and we have a young baby now and I'm back at work, I went back only weeks after her birth and I'm trying to juggle home work and baby. We have exchanged ...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance

Partner has fallen out of love with me

posted Wed 11, Apr 2012 at 12:30am

I was with my partner for 3 and a half years. We split up 3 weeks ago. Things weren't going well for a while and I could feel that we were going to break up but it just doesn't feel real at the mom...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Affairs & Jealousy

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need advice!

posted Fri 12, Apr 2013 at 10:50am

I split from my husband nearly two years ago when he had an affair. I met my partner five months after, I have two young children but that didn't seem to bother him considering he is 9 years young...

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Where do i go from here

posted Mon 15, Apr 2013 at 2:51pm

Yesterday at her place, I had a talk with my overly spoiled girlfriend. I decided I was sick of constantly being her doormat and her, as she called me, “little piggy bank” that she could flaunt me ...

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Money, Housework, Friends & Family, Making a Commitment

How to get over it

posted Fri 19, Apr 2013 at 8:56am

Hi all, I found out my husband was having an affair when I had a 12 week old baby last November, we split up for a while, but then decided to give our relationship another go. All the time he is...

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Affairs & Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner

Quick dating question, nothing too in-depth

posted Mon 22, Apr 2013 at 2:12pm

I'm part of a fairly big social group/friends that arranges events/activities together and I have been on a few dates with someone from the group. On first impressions chatting to her within the gr...

Tags: Dating
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HELP IN A ROCK AND HARD PLACE

posted Tue 23, Apr 2013 at 9:39am

Hey I'm not very good at all this being a man I seem to suffer with the age old "I don't need to talk to anyone", but I'm really struggling. I have a 14 month old daughter and split from my part...

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Money, Work, Getting on Better with my Partner, Bringing up Children Together

No Sex, Pregnancy, Communication, and Romance Problems

posted Fri 26, Apr 2013 at 12:42am

This is the first time I've posted on something like this and don't necessarily feel to comfortable. I'm 26 years old and have been with my girlfriend for going on 5 years here in May. We've lived ...

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Husband spend more time with his sister than me

posted Tue 23, Apr 2013 at 9:19pm

I have been married for 8 months. Me and my husband was very much in love, we were close and trusted eachother 100%. We are from different cultures he is arabic and I am American. While we were dat...

Tags: husband,wife,time,family,hurt,need
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Finding Time for Each Other, Friends & Family, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment, Mixed Families

Husband - communication issues

posted Fri 26, Apr 2013 at 5:34am

I am having/creating issues with being suspicious of my husband. He has never been unfaithful physically - however, he is often having chats/emails with 'female colleagues' that I think can be mis...

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Affairs & Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

I love him too much to leave him, but we can't carry on like this. Should we go on a break?

posted Sun 28, Apr 2013 at 6:53pm

I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 4 years now. He's been my first love and first everything. We used to love each other very much and I know he would have done anything for me. He treated me...

Tags: Break,couple,distance,love
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Finding Time for Each Other, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

virginity problem

posted Sun 28, Apr 2013 at 7:28pm

i have recently got into a relationship with a girl about 2 weeks ago but she has told me that she has lost her virginity to another man. the problem is i am still a virgin and feel like i am going...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance
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