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Help me i feel so lost!

posted Sun 25, Jun 2017 at 10:55pm

I'm having relationship problems and i really dont know what to do. I've been in the relationship for nearly 5 years but the problems started 3 years ago when I caught my boyfriend texting sexual t...

Tags: cheating,insecure,dying love,love of my life,boyfriend
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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Sex and Affairs

Should I breakup?

posted Sun 25, Jun 2017 at 11:42am

Hi ! This is E. I saw this forum and I wanted to share my story with you. This seemed never good but now I realize this might be helpful. My boyfriend and I are not in our best days. Well he has be...

Tags: Breaking,separate,depressed
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A Psychologist's Perspective

I have no idea what to think about this new person...?

posted Fri 23, Jun 2017 at 8:09pm

Hi. I met a man several weeks ago, while I was on business out of town. We talked. I felt a strong pull to him and connection. Also what I noticed was how calm I felt in his presence, which is odd...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Making a Commitment

Confused continued

posted Wed 21, Jun 2017 at 11:02pm

Been dating in our 50's 2yrs. Go for wonderful weekends away we really enjoy each others company. Yet every 8 or so weeks he goes on plenty of fish probably 2 days in a row for 10 mins. Usually aft...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Making a Commitment, Communications in relationships

my boyfriend called our baby annoying

posted Tue 20, Jun 2017 at 2:35am

My boyfriend and I both work and we have a 9 month old baby together. Very rarely if the babysitter cant come one of us will watch her. Today he had to watch her and it is always a huge job for him...

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Becoming a Parent, Friends & Family, Bringing up Children Together, A Psychologist's Perspective

Lost...

posted Mon 19, Jun 2017 at 8:01pm

I'm 28 mom of 3 going on 4, married, a homemaker. My husband is 25 and works construction for the last 6 or so years. He is definitely my soul mate, but lately it hasn't been feeling like that. ...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner, Bringing up Children Together, Communications in relationships, A Psychologist's Perspective, Sex and Affairs

Trouble in bed

posted Sat 17, Jun 2017 at 8:51am

Ok me and my boyfriend have been together almost 7 years with only one break up and make up with each other. We both live in the same town just not with each other, but we are making plans to mov...

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Sex and Affairs

My boyfriend feels like a roommate.

posted Fri 16, Jun 2017 at 8:07am

Hello, thank you all for taking the time to read this, I'm sorry but it it going to be quite long, but I do feel like this might help me. So, I have been dating my boyfriend for a year, and aft...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment, Life transitions, Communications in relationships, A Psychologist's Perspective

Silent Treatment

posted Fri 16, Jun 2017 at 1:42am

I've been with my husband for 7 years, married for almost 4. It is the second marriage for both of us, and my 15 yo son has autism. Early on in our relationship, he would completely shut down for a...

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Having a Child with Additional Needs, Mixed Families, Communications in relationships

Heart broken, and Confused

posted Tue 13, Jun 2017 at 3:11am

I have been dating my guy for 7 years . I been engaged three times we never lived together but he managed to get his own place without me never seeing where he stayed. There has been a lot of good ...

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Bringing up Children Together, Life transitions, Communications in relationships, A Psychologist's Perspective, Living Apart Together

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I have a boyfriend but can't stop thinking about someone else. Help.

posted Fri 6, Feb 2009 at 8:32pm

Hi there. I have been with my boyfriend on and off for almost 6 years. He is my first love and i care greatly for him. The problem is someone ive known for many years also, we have always had a spa...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Getting on Better with my Partner

Jealousy issues with bf

posted Tue 1, Nov 2011 at 6:45pm

Ive been with my bf for almost 9 years, and although i've always been a jealous person i feel like its now getting out of hand. Just some background info... Years ago I found out he was having an i...

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Affairs and Jealousy

help - we just cant talk without arguing

posted Wed 24, Sep 2008 at 1:12pm

My fella and I have been together for 8 years and have children together. Over the past 4 years we have be gradually been drifting apart with issues from work , neighbours from hell and me not sle...

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Getting on Better with my Partner

confused

posted Thu 8, Dec 2011 at 2:31pm

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 and a half years, we are both only 20 so started dating when we were 16. 10 days before we got together my boyfriend broke up with me and we had been to...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Making a Commitment

Boyfreind caught masturbating in bed while I'm asleep

posted Mon 23, May 2011 at 11:40am

Hi new to this! But just wondering. Iv been with my boyfreind for 6months now and we live in our own flat. Everythings great etc and Yesterday we had sex during The day, and I fell asleep in bed ...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

Partner has fallen out of love with me

posted Wed 11, Apr 2012 at 12:30am

I was with my partner for 3 and a half years. We split up 3 weeks ago. Things weren't going well for a while and I could feel that we were going to break up but it just doesn't feel real at the mom...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy

My boyfriend cannot have sex and has low libido

posted Tue 25, Jun 2013 at 5:30am

My partner and I have been together for 6 months. He told me truthfully at the beginning of our relationship that he has several factors that seem to affect his ability to have sex. He had brain ...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

Is He Leading Me On? I Really Care About Him ...

posted Fri 25, Nov 2011 at 12:15am

Hi all, I'm in need of some relationship advice. I'm feeling really blue about this. So here it is: I've known this wonderful guy for over a year, and was previously with another guy but knew hi...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Making a Commitment

Shoul I Leave Him?

posted Tue 1, Nov 2011 at 10:09am

Hi Guys Im Kinda New To This Site... Okay So Im 16 And Going out with a guy who is 25 ( Yes 9 Years InBetween Us.) 3 Days Ago Was His Birthday, so as usual he picked me up from school with his car...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

I met another guy during a break up, but now my bf and I are back together, help!

posted Mon 21, Nov 2011 at 5:37pm

My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and 5 months now. The majority of that time we have lived together also. We've had ups and downs that have led us to break up several times (his fa...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

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Frustrated

posted Fri 17, Jul 2009 at 11:31am

Hi. I've been dating my girlfriend for over 4 months now. Up till now it was great but now it's going downhill. I recently found out that she had been chatting to a guy that I work with after I...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner

Lost Love

posted Fri 17, Jul 2009 at 10:13pm

Me and my girlfriend have been seeing eachother now for over 3 years. it started off as the dream relationship, there wasnt a things that we didnt do together, we talked about everything and shared...

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Affairs and Jealousy

I cannot take no more

posted Sun 19, Jul 2009 at 11:55am

I have been In my relationship for 17years on and of I live with someone who is an alcohol and i have lost alot of friends & family and i am on my own i have a seven year old daughter and don't kn...

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Getting on Better with my Partner

HELP!!! IS SHE TOO GOOD FOR ME??

posted Sun 19, Jul 2009 at 12:25pm

Me and my girlfriend have been seeing eachother for the past 3 years. For the last 2 years ive been feeling as if my girlfriend is just too good for me and she could do so much better, shes so beau...

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Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

is it worth waiting about

posted Sun 19, Jul 2009 at 9:09pm

been in an on/off relationship for 4 year.he says he l never live with any1 again.his x hurt him badly.they were together 22 year.she left him for a woman.i ve stayed around hoping it d get better....

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Getting on Better with my Partner

Help is she cheating

posted Mon 20, Jul 2009 at 4:40am

Ive been with my girlfriend now for 2 years and over the past 5 months shes been wanting less and less sex and never comes on to me i always have to make the moves. We argue about it as she says sh...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner

no spark, please help

posted Sun 26, Jul 2009 at 3:32pm

my relationship has gone stale. have been living with my partner for a year. he says he doesnt think he is in love with me as he doesnt feel a spark anymore. but he does love and fancy me.i think w...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Sex/Intimacy and romance

i keep getting dumped and he wants to stay friends

posted Tue 28, Jul 2009 at 8:46am

i been with my partner for four year.he was very hurt by his last relationship.she went off with a girl after 21 year together.he s told me id be forgot bout in the blink of an eye if we finished,t...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

what should i do

posted Tue 28, Jul 2009 at 11:59am

hi me and my girlfriend has been on and off for a year and a half now all i asked her for were 3 things 1. be honest with me 2. dont cheat on me (as a few x-girlfrinds did and i had my mum to pick ...

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Making a Commitment

need advice

posted Thu 30, Jul 2009 at 9:09pm

Please don't judge me. I need your advise. I have been in a relation for 3 years and live with my fiance. When we started living together I propose that we have a joint savings account towards our...

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Money, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

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