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Does he love me or is he in denial?

posted Mon 20, Oct 2014 at 11:38pm

I have been with my boyfriend for a year and we get on brilliantly. We got together just 3 months after his ex told him she was pregnant. They were not in a relationship and my boyfriend hasn't h...

Tags: denial,baby
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Becoming a Parent, Making a Commitment, Communications in relationships, A Psychologist's Perspective

some honest opinions please

posted Mon 20, Oct 2014 at 11:12pm

my partner and i are best of friends, until it comes to sex,He has hang ups that he has had all his life, he gets bored, its like, its the thrill of the chase he loves, and now, he just doesn't lo...

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Was it the right decision? Was it stupid?

posted Mon 20, Oct 2014 at 10:37pm

So me and my boyfriend had a fight. He told me that I changed him a lot since we were together (almost 2 years now). He said he doesn't know what kind of person he is now a bit. But he said he was ...

Tags: love,help,needs,relationship,boyfriend
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Getting on Better with my Partner

My wife has stopped taking the pill without telling me

posted Mon 20, Oct 2014 at 6:28pm

Hello all, I've recently discovered my wife has been pretending to take the pill then disposing of it behind the bed a few times. We have had unprotected sex at her most fertile time and I feel ...

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Is separation period healthy for the relationship?

posted Mon 20, Oct 2014 at 7:46am

My partner and me are undergoing difficulties in our relationship related to trust. I distrust my partner a lot. He lost his trust in trusting me that I will trust him. Now he wants to have a perio...

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Silent partner

posted Mon 20, Oct 2014 at 2:59am

I need help, my boyfriend won't talk to me about how he feels apart from telling me he loves me, however I can tell when there's something bothering him or upsetting him but he won't tell me how he...

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Communications in relationships

Do you think this is weird? and should I be worried?

posted Mon 20, Oct 2014 at 12:26am

Okay picture this: its 10:20pm at night, you with your partner in the flat then all of the sudden, you partner wants to go for a walk. Odd as it sounds you agree and say 'okay I'll go with y...

Tags: problems,weird,worried,partner
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Affairs and Jealousy, Sex and Affairs

Do you think he likes me romantically?

posted Sun 19, Oct 2014 at 10:56pm

Not sure if this is the right place to be asking but thought it was worth a shot! This is a really long question so please bear with me!! Couple of months ago my friend dragged me along to a be...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Friends & Family, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment, Communications in relationships

Can a LDR feel like a normal relationship?

posted Sun 19, Oct 2014 at 2:05pm

I am now in my first serious long-term relationship (LDR). I like (maybe even love) the girl, talk to her every day, generally feel happy around her, and so on, but something just doesn't feel righ...

Tags: LDR,long distance relationship,distance relationship,distance,love,cheating
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Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment, Communications in relationships, Living Apart Together, Sex and Affairs

He's told me I meant nothing.

posted Sun 19, Oct 2014 at 9:52am

I'm totally ashamed and disappointed in myself for what I have done. I got involved with a married man 2 years ago. He started to pay me attention and we started a relationship started between us. ...

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Sex and Affairs

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Jealousy issues with bf

posted Tue 1, Nov 2011 at 6:45pm

Ive been with my bf for almost 9 years, and although i've always been a jealous person i feel like its now getting out of hand. Just some background info... Years ago I found out he was having an i...

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Affairs and Jealousy

Is He Leading Me On? I Really Care About Him ...

posted Fri 25, Nov 2011 at 12:15am

Hi all, I'm in need of some relationship advice. I'm feeling really blue about this. So here it is: I've known this wonderful guy for over a year, and was previously with another guy but knew hi...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Making a Commitment

help - we just cant talk without arguing

posted Wed 24, Sep 2008 at 1:12pm

My fella and I have been together for 8 years and have children together. Over the past 4 years we have be gradually been drifting apart with issues from work , neighbours from hell and me not sle...

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Getting on Better with my Partner

Shoul I Leave Him?

posted Tue 1, Nov 2011 at 10:09am

Hi Guys Im Kinda New To This Site... Okay So Im 16 And Going out with a guy who is 25 ( Yes 9 Years InBetween Us.) 3 Days Ago Was His Birthday, so as usual he picked me up from school with his car...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

I met another guy during a break up, but now my bf and I are back together, help!

posted Mon 21, Nov 2011 at 5:37pm

My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and 5 months now. The majority of that time we have lived together also. We've had ups and downs that have led us to break up several times (his fa...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

confused

posted Thu 8, Dec 2011 at 2:31pm

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 and a half years, we are both only 20 so started dating when we were 16. 10 days before we got together my boyfriend broke up with me and we had been to...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Making a Commitment

Boyfreind caught masturbating in bed while I'm asleep

posted Mon 23, May 2011 at 11:40am

Hi new to this! But just wondering. Iv been with my boyfreind for 6months now and we live in our own flat. Everythings great etc and Yesterday we had sex during The day, and I fell asleep in bed ...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

webcam

posted Sat 28, Jan 2012 at 10:12am

I have been in a relationship with my partner for a year and moved in with him 3 months ago. I have just discovered that he is a member on a swinging website and that he masturbates online over a w...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy

Is it him or me???

posted Tue 13, Mar 2012 at 10:51pm

I've been with my partner for over 7 years and we have a young baby now and I'm back at work, I went back only weeks after her birth and I'm trying to juggle home work and baby. We have exchanged ...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

Partner has fallen out of love with me

posted Wed 11, Apr 2012 at 12:30am

I was with my partner for 3 and a half years. We split up 3 weeks ago. Things weren't going well for a while and I could feel that we were going to break up but it just doesn't feel real at the mom...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy

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Please give me some advice!!

posted Mon 4, Jun 2012 at 10:17pm

I've done something awful and I don't know what to do, I've been with my parter 2 years and we have recently moved into our first home together. I love him and I know he loves me, long story short ...

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Affairs and Jealousy

Night shift boyfriends lost his sex drive!!

posted Sun 3, Jun 2012 at 7:10am

I am using this as a way of helping my relationship... because I am sick of not talking to anyone about it and keeping it all in!!! I have been with my bf less than a year. He is my one, the man I ...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Sex/Intimacy and romance

DEVASTATED, FEEL SICK & BETRAYED

posted Wed 6, Jun 2012 at 2:03pm

I have been with my partner for 3 and a half years and we have a baby together, I also have 2 older children. I had a (very) rare night away over the weekend and yesterday discovered that my partne...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

Communication issue

posted Wed 6, Jun 2012 at 9:34pm

Hi Can someone give me an opinion on whether I am right or wrong with my argument with my girlfriend? To set the scene.. We only see each other on weekends usually, and she is a very very lai...

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Work, Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner

I need your opinion.. :) really need it.im hoping,but I dont really know wht to do.

posted Mon 4, Jun 2012 at 7:43am

Ive known this guy,he is a good and respectful person.and I like everythin bout him.ive said I like him and he says he likes me too but hes not sure how this working. I can plan but I always dont h...

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Work, Finding Time for Each Other, Affairs and Jealousy, Friends & Family, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment, Mixed Families

email account dilema

posted Wed 6, Jun 2012 at 8:17pm

If you were to open your laptop/computer one afternoon and found your partners email account opened (i.e they had not signed the night before)would you; A - Sign out straight away B - Quickly s...

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Affairs and Jealousy

Dilemma - rock and a hard place

posted Wed 6, Jun 2012 at 3:59pm

I would like to have other peoples viewpoints on a thorny problem that I walked into. I have a wonderful wife and 2 lovely children that I live to love. However, I also have another child with a g...

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Affairs and Jealousy

Am I just insecure or is she cheating?

posted Wed 13, Jun 2012 at 9:26pm

I've been married to my wife for 6 years and we have 2 wonderful sons. Over the last couple of months she has been very distant and has not let her phone out of her sight (constantly on Facebook or...

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Affairs and Jealousy

Re-kindling sex with my husband - help!

posted Mon 11, Jun 2012 at 10:31am

I have been married for a few years and have two young children with my husband. Over the last year we have had less and less sex (my lack of enthusiasm/instigation) and I know it is getting him do...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

Please help, Lesbian relationship crisis

posted Mon 11, Jun 2012 at 10:51pm

Alot of people dont agree with same sex relationships but im completely in love with my partner. Things are becoming really difficult and i dont know which way to turn. We consantly argure, over ...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner

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