Would you let your partner of 11 years have an opportunity to sleep with other people outside of the relationship
I’ve posted something similar but this is more specific,
Would you let your partner of 11 years have an opportunity to sleep with other people outside of the relationship for a short duration because of the following reasons?
1) You have had a few experiences 3 actually sexual (1 of them being the cheat)but you were his first only girlfriend who he committed to from the age of 13 years old and has never had any other sexual experience.
2) Plus you also cheated on him 13 years ago when you were a teenager and only told him recently and keeping this lie would have meant he wouldn’t have stayed with you back then therefore would have had experiences with others. In effect you have taken his teenage years by hiding the truth.
To add you both love each other beyond words and even now you have told him about the cheat he still wants to spend the rest of his life with you, wants family, marriage, etc... you know you both intend to comit to each other forever have made plans and everything But he finds it hard to dismiss the curiosity and stolen time and you feel like you owe him what you have taken.
In addition you both find it hard; him especially to move forward and escape the hauntings of the past i.e what youve done to him.. he also feels like this curiosity will always be there and you both dont want it to drive you apart in the future.