Will my husband come back to me?
4 weeks ago my husband returned from a 6 week tour of Canada (he is in the Army) to tell me that he did not want our marriage anymore. I discovered a week later that he had met a girl in a bar one night and subsequently spent a few days with her and was unfaithful.
I am completely and utterly devastated. I had no idea that he was unhappy with our marriage at all and he has not really given me any reason for leaving me. The only thing I can think of was that he was unhappy with the usual routine of it all.
He has now been signed off work with depression for a few weeks and has completely disappeared. I have now discovered that he has gone back to Canada but apparently he is staying with his aunt and uncle but obviously I am thinking that he has gone over there to continue his "affair".
I love him completely and really want him back. I cannot just chuck away 18 years of my life without a fight. (We've been married for 8 years and together for 10 before that). He is 35 and I am 34.
His texts and emails to me are completely cold and it is so hard for me to accept as 6 weeks ago I was perfectly happily married or so I thought. He has told me via email that he thought we were more like brother and sister but I do not accept this comment at all.
I am just wondering what he is really feeling and will he ever come back to me. I cannot see my life without him and I am having so much trouble coming to terms with it all.