Wife won't forgive me for having an affair
I have always had a stronger sex drive than my wife and I had an affair which ended 3 years ago (I felt lonely, wasn’t getting the affection I needed ….you know what I mean). My wife found out about it and confronted me. The evidence was all there so it was pointless denying it. The affair did go on for a long time (4 years) and during that time I must admit between work which took me abroad a lot and my lover I also ended up neglecting our teenage son who I love dearly. But as I said – that was all over 3 years ago – but my wife just cant forgive me or forget the affair. She raises it whenever we have an argument, we no longer sleep in the same bed I really do love my wife, she is a fantastic mother and a caring partner. I have apologized over and over again for what I have done, but it seems to make no difference. I cant just keep apologizing so I have stopped. I asked her how I can make it up to her and she just cries, we have been to the GP but she wont accept any counseling or any other help. If I even suggest that we get some help she gets so angry she shouts and screams and tells me what a loser I am. I just don’t know what to do. Should I cut my losses and leave?