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Why is he being like this?

User-anonymous
Posted by: Anonymous
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Wed 25, Jul 2012 at 1:54pm
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Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

Hi me and my boyfriend been going out for 4months, i'm quite mature for my age but recently it feels different i feel very down and i try to explain to him how i feel but he still doesn't make any difference. He goes out with his friends more often than with me and I always have to start the conversation which upsets me a little, I say to him it seems like you don't care any more but he just said 'I do' but i still feel insecure. What do i do?

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  • User-anonymous Anonymous Flag

    Maybe you feel insecure because he isn't initiating things. Does he talk about things that will happen in the future? I wonder how committed he is to the relationship... maybe you two just aren't on the same page at the moment, give him some time and maybe a lot of space to let him realise what he wants and then maybe things will improve.

    Wed 25, Jul 2012 at 5:25pm
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