Why doesn't he want me?
My partner and I have an amazing relationship based on trust, friendship, intimacy and mutual respect. My partner is an incredible man that shows me love and affection every day in hugs, random touches and quick kisses.
But he never seems to want to have sex with me?
I have tried all the usuals: wearing something I know will flick his switch, his favourite perfume, initiating, not initiating, watching porn with him, you name it, I've tried it. But he either turns me down, if I initiate (which now leaves me feeling terribly worthless) or very rarely tries it one with me.
I have tried talking to him about it but he gets ratty, saying "you're not happy are you, why are you with me?" I'm with him because I love him and ge makes me happy (apart from this) when he does turn me down, he says "tomorrow, I promise" but it never happens.
In every other aspect of our relationship we are blissfully happy, we are not youngsters and both know that relationships take work, but this is really killing me, I want him so desperately, but he seems uninterested. When we do have sex, it's amazing, he always comments on how compatible we are, so what am I doing wrong.
Please if anyone can help or suggest something I could do differently please do. It has always been this way so it's not as if the 'spark' has died.
I'm getting to the point where I don't even want to try anymore from fear of rejection.
Hope someone here can help me and give me advice on what I'm doing wrong or what I can do to change this.