What to do...long distance relationship
I need advise. I am a single mom of two beautiful daughters. I had a really bad marriage that i thank God i am out of. Two years ago i meet the man of my dreams and after a month of talking and one date i KNEW i wanted to marry this man. So on Easter a year and half later he popped the question. Of course i said yes and i have been the happiest girl till lately. You see when we met he was still in school and told me in two years he would have to move to finish his law degree. Well after we are engaged now the two years are up. He moved two months age and i feel like i have lost my best friend. I am so use to him coming "home" every night and helping me put the girls to bed and us spending time together before he heads home. In my state he is not allowed to stay the night because of the kids so he never has but ever single night he came over. now he is two hours away and we barley get to see him. i feel like i should move up there but he has a room mate he cant just kick out. and since we are not married we cant live together. I know hes doing it for school but i feel like he left us behind on hold for the 3 years its ganna take him to finish. What do i do? what do i say? i miss the love of my life!!


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Hey there,
I know it sounds hard and I'm sure you'll miss each other so much, but if you've agreed to keep the relationship going whilst he's studying then you'll both have to work hard to keep your love for each other alive. I found some tips and advice on this site for couple's who have to live apart for whatever reason http://thecoupleconnection.net/couples-living-apart. There is also a blog about Long Distance relationships, which is quite interesting too..http://thecoupleconnection.net/blog/long-distance-relationships-finding-time-for-each-other. Enjoy... and don't give up on something that is good.