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Trouble in bed

Posted by: Anonymous
Sat 17, Jun 2017 at 8:51am
Sex and Affairs

Ok me and my boyfriend have been together almost 7 years with only one break up and make up with each other. We both live in the same town just not with each other, but we are making plans to move in with each other asap. Almost all the time he would always give me compliments about how sexy I was to him, pretty, etc. Always made me feel he was interested. Now he barley says those things and when I ask him does he still feel the same he always says yes babe I do. Ok now with that on my mind here goes this. When we have sex now all its seems like he wants is for me to do oral on him and know he doesn't do me that much at all. Anyway I went give him oral three days in a row one time a week strength, but we wouldn't have sex. At first until a few months ago we would have crazy sex. What's the problem?

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  • 20170422_131809 kevin_yates Flag

    I know this may sound silly but have you tried asking him why he doesn't want to have sex with you? If not, start there. The one thing you don't want to do is play the guessing game. That only leads to frustration, anger and resentment. There's too many things that could be going on and you need to gain clarity on what the real issue is before moving in together. Often times the issue on the surface isn't the real issue. The good thing here is that when you ask him if he still feels the same way about you he answers you and says he does. That seems to show he is willing to communicate with you.

    Mon 19, Jun 2017 at 5:34pm
  • 17155723_1276060565776625_4168236093605263369_n Jarzebkowska_Iga Flag

    I fully agree with Kevin.
    If the sincere game won't work, I would try several more times. If this won't work, I would try some distance from him - just to give some space, to think about all the issues and come back to you when he's ready

    Mon 26, Jun 2017 at 8:50am

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