totally confused
hi all i don't know where to start my partner of 3 yrs has just come out of prison and all we seem to be doing is rowing abut every little thing all he does is go out all day and stays out most nights we have two sons and he spands hardly any time with them or me i have thrown his clothes out and told him i dont want to be with him but i really do love him as i know he loves me i just cant see a way out of this rut there have also been issues with other women


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Gosh what a really difficult situation to be in! It may well be that you need someone else to help you change the way things are going with your partner. Relate and Marriage care offer relationship counselling. You have had to manage all on your own while he has been in prison...it is no wonder you find it difficult to change back to being a couple......I can imagine he is also aware of the changes in you...you may well be more confident and competent having gone through such a change. He may find those changes in you a real challenge...he may even feel you do not need him anymore. What do you think?