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Thinking of trying again
I cheated on my boyfriend when we were about 16 years old we were on and off for a few years and then we had a baby not planned. a year later we moved in together and lived together for over 10 years and at the end of that i left him as i found out he had been cheating on me for most of the time having one night stands and a few affairs it been awhile now since we split and we have started to talk about things and i m was starting to think should i take him back and then he started to say i was just as bad as him as i cheated on him first but never did it again while he been do it most of the time while he still holding it against me and bring it up whenever i ask him if he was cheating on me and he always said no and that i was the one that cheated and even now he still throwing it up he made me feel as if it all my fault and i sometimes think i deserved it is it my fault or is he just using it to get out of it so i will take him back.
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Why would you want to try to get back with someone who keeps reminding you that you cheated ONCE - and he's done it repeatedly but that doesn't count? Something not quite right here!
Might be worth asking yourself why you want to get back together. It's hard living on your own and bringing up up a youngster, so I can understand why you'd want some support with this. It can also be a bit lonely too - so it all makes sense. But, he doesn't sound like the sort of person that would support you or that you could rely on to be there for you. Is that really what you want?
Hope it works out, let us know how it goes and what your decision is.