The only one making the effort
To give you an insight I have been seeing my partner for 5 months, I have been in 2 other long term relationships but he hasnt been in any.
To begin with he was the one doing all the chasing he was making arrangements 3-4 times a week and texting everyday for a couple of hours. Now I know this is the honeymoon stage and cannot carry on in the long term but over the last few weeks I have noticed a huge change. He never texts and if I text him I get a reply and then thats it for the day. I see him twice a week but feel I have to make the arrangements and when I see him he is always late and cannot understand when Im annoyed/upset about it.
When Im with him he isnt as cuddly as he was at the start but everything is good and he tells me he loves me. It just seems like at the start he was excited to see me and things and now hes sort of bored.
What would you do in this situation, Im trying everything but i feel like im making all the effort... if i didnt im not sure i would see/ hear from him more than once a week.
Ive never been in this situation before, sorry if im rambling.. and thanks for reading my essay!