Should i stay or should i go?
Basically this issue all boils down to my bfs ex gf...
They were in a relationship for almost 2 years and she had a son which my partner bonded with. After the relationship ended they continued to talk but just for my partner to see the little boy.
This i could deal with as it purely was jsut for the little boy. But since then he's become 'good friends' with her again and now wont stop talking to her and saying inappropriate things. i once found a message from him to her asking for sex and went mental about it yet nothing changed... i then continued to find inappropriate messages where he's called her 'my lucy' and asked to stay adding 'you know i'll make it worth your while' he says he didnt mean it in the way i took it and she wouldnt of either but what am i meant to think?? He's also been meeting her secretly to go for 'lunch'...
Ive said to him many times its me or her and every time he chooses her!!! I cant leave him coz funnily enough i truly love him..
Yet if he doesnt stop this i may just have to take my son and go!!!
Any ideas anyone? Ive tried talking to him and discussing all of this but he just seems to ignore it and doesnt ever take it on board! :(