should i see him again!?
i met this guy on a dating site 3weeks ago. we spoke everyday and decided to.meet. since we have met 8times and spent a night together. i thought we were getting on really well and we had the conversation about what we were both wanting out of seei.g each other and decided we were both dating each other in the hope for something more once we have got to know each other better. so i thought i knew where i stood and deleted by dating site account. a week later a was told by a friend he was still actively using the dating site. so i confrontd him about this and he said he goes on to nosey and doesmt speak to anyone. he seem genuine about it so i trusted him.
everything was going find then i notice he had added a girl on facebook that was also on the dating so he is talking to people on there.
i need some advice as i think this is wrong but i am not sure if i am reading to much i to the situation. surely if u are spending time with someone in a hope for somethere more u shouldnt b lookin eles where.
i would really like some advice on this please as i am so confused
thanks


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3weeks is a very short time to know someone...do you know anything about his history on that dating site...has he had relationships like yours before? I would want to k,now a lot more about his previous dating history before I attached to someone. He may be honest and trustworthy...but it seems to me that you are right to question what his recent activity on the site means and be cautious about getting in too deep. Sorry to sound so negative...but you need to take care of yourself.