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should i leave or not

User-anonymous
Posted by: Anonymous
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Sun 2, Sep 2012 at 11:13pm

Alright so I'm only 17 but I'm more on the mature side for a 17 year old and need some help i feel or well felt like i was in love with my girlfriend but lately I'm just not happy with the relationship but it makes my heart drop to think of leaving her but I'm always mad and sad around her for reasons involving her. we have been going out for a year and nine months what should i do?

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  • User-anonymous Anonymous Flag

    Having been going out with your partner for 21 months it sounds like you are both growing in different ways and maybe they don't suit you both. You mention that there are reasons that your gf makes you feel mad and sad, are these reasons resolveable? If not, then although your heart drops to think about leaving her, for your own good this maybe the right move unless you want to feel mad and sad in your relationship.
    There are so many people out there and this person, may have been the right one, when you first met but may not be the right person, at this time in your life. Only you can answer that question and it sounds like you are giving this situation a great deal of thought, so that whatever you decide to do you will do it sensitively and with care, so you can both move onto new relationships.
    Look up the articles on relationships on this site under Relationship Advice on the left hand site of this page which are full of good stuff that may help you.
    It great that you came onto this site for help and stay in touch so the community here can help you.

    Wed 5, Sep 2012 at 10:11am
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