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Questions for women about meeting the right guy
Hey, I have a few questions for all women out there. I am looking for a variety of perspectives when it comes to meeting & attracting the man (men) of your dreams. Whether you've succeeded or still working on it I am sure you have something valueable to share.
1. What would be your dream scenario/outcome? In detail, exactly what kind of guy are you looking for?
2. What have or haven't worked for you so far?
3. What do you think the solution is? What would you like it to be?
4. In this context, what are your biggest fears and frustrations? Be as specific as you can.
Hopefully this will make you contemplate things you haven't considered before and be helpful to others as well. Thanks in advance.
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Oooo a Poll!! This is fun! ok..
1. Dream scenario/outcome would be to meet a guy who is like me. A bitt different, a bit goofy, living life with a smile and getting married. Im looking for someone who won't hit or be little me. Someone who can appreciate the small things i do and who can understand me. Someone who can deal with me at my worst because then he'll deserve me at my best. wait.. should i say tall dark and handsome? nah.. thats dumb.
2. So far online dating has a 50/50 shot. I met a LOT of strange people, but im currently seeing someone i met on there from 8 months ago. Also, i casually dated a guy who left his number on my car after we both walked into the grocery store together. It was different but ballsy and i liked that. I Do not suggest to anyone to "fall in love" in highschool. that did not work out so well and it took me 10 years to realize it.
3. the solution is to just say screw men, find a woman i can live with while keeping a sex slave in the basement. Other than that i haven't got a clue, but it would be nice if cupid were real. I wouldn't mind getting married and living happily ever after.
4. biggest fears and frustrations are being a single parent in an adult dating world. I have my daughter to think about and even though i might want to have some fun and go out and just be me, she is always on my mind, Every action effects her. So if i meet someone i met online and he kills me im screwed. Or if i don't meet them and he could have been the one im screwed. I ahve to think who will make me happy and be a good part time father. Who will maybe want to have more kids with me and who can match my parenting style so i don't have to fight about every little thing. And of course, abuse. I don't like men who hit. Probably my biggest fear. Someone people hide who they are inside until it's too lte.
that was fun!! thanks