Newbie help please?
Not sure if anyone can advise but here goes. Brief history, married 34 years, 4 grown up kids, financially ok and seemingly happy. Wife had an affair 20 years ago but worked through it and stayed together, although there have been trust issues obviously. Just recently (6 months) wife working later than usual and being a bit distant. Alarm bells started ringing and to cut a long story I now know that she is having a full affair with her boss. She is unaware that I know and I am tearing myself up to know how to handle this again. Problem is we have a big family celebration holiday abroad in 4 weeks time and to do anything now would competely ruin everything for the family. Question is....do I confront her and her boss after the holiday or do I just ignore it and carry on hoping that it will blow over? We both stand to lose everything if we split up after all these years. Am I just being weak and stupid? Should I let her get away with it a second time knowing that I can never trust her again? Any advice would be great please. Thank you so much.