Please can someone help me, my last post was "Neighbour contacted me on a dating site". Since my last post things have seemed to have gone from bad to worse and now I have really fallen for this guy and really hurting. After we had a spat we didn't speak for 3 weeks and suddenly on wednesday, I was walking the dog and he came and spoke to me, saying he couldn't take me not talking to him and could we be cool and he said he thought we were getting on well etc questioned him on just wanting sex and he said he didn't want that he just wanted to be with me and his mother was away and he wanted me to spend sometime with him in his house etc and the repeating he's liked me for 9 years and how he used to see me all the time and to me it seemed sweet and I then spent some time with him which was nice and I really like him alot now. Then the next day he was supposed to come over and he didn't and I heard nothing from him he said he dropped his phoned down the toilet and has another mobile and number but didnt give it to me then the day after I called him over to get his number and he said I had company, which I did I was with my friend and he then left as his mates were behnd waiting for him in the car. Its been 3 days and not heard a thing from him, he's not been over with his number or spoke to me, I've seen him pass in the car and he keeps his head down but to be honest, he says I'm his private business and he doesn't want everyone to know what he's doing so he doesn't tend to do much when he#s with mates etc anyway I am confused with this behaviour, I felt very depressed yesterday and lay in bed not wanting to move not understanding why he's full on one minute and cold then next, wondering if its me coz I've pulled back when he asked me where he stood and then I think its a game for him to get sex but he says he wouldn't do that so close to home HELP!!! :(