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Ill keep it short. Everyday for the past 8 months the guy i was seeing texted me. From good morning to good night we talked about everything and things were going mostly great. Pretty sure he was a little afraid of getting to close but i wasn't pushing since i wasn't completely ready either. Any whoo, after 8 months he just stopped texting, for the past 3 weeks he hasn't responded to any of my text or phone calls. His last words to me were "haha" to a joke i told him. Soooo... anyone got any ideas? It's a little late for being phased out, and up until the black day as i like to call it, he was adding things to our "date list". I mean im totally getting payback cause i just refuse to sit around and be treated like some trash he threw out on the corner with no reason or warning. Ok,.. not short.. sorry i ramble when im trying not to cry. Ok.. advice,.. hit me!
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I'm a guy so I'll add my .02. Have you confirmed he's OK? If I'm reading your post correctly you have had zero contact with him in 3 weeks. If it turns out he's OK and he's ignoring your texts and calls I'd say he's no longer interested in the relationship and doesn't have the balls to tell you so. Pretty weak if you ask me. I'd move on to bigger and better things.
I can neither confirm nor deny he's OK. Since you're a man you would know if he's just being a grade A Jerk so ill trust you and just grab my revenge and do as suggested. thanks!! you don't like anywhere near Nj do you? lol
Sorry, I should have explained what I meant by "OK." Have you confirmed he wasn't in some kind of an accident, been injured or worse? If he's not lying in a coma somewhere then I'd say he's just being a jerk and doesn't have the balls to tell you he's no longer interested.
Oh yea.. i've passed his work and seen his car and we were friends on xbox and he was on there for two days while he wasn't talking to me. Plus i was going to grow a pair and confront him at his home twice now and his car was not there. I assume it's possible someone else could have moved his car and used his account and he could be in a coma somewhere but i doubt it. Too much coincidence.
Reading between the lines and as a guy.....unfortunately he's no longer interested. Sorry to be blunt. If he was committed to you he would have contacted u by now. Also as many men don't like onfontation he's being a wimp by not being honest with you. He's assuming in would get the hint by now ...
Good luck
Thanks. The hint was taken.. guys totally afraid of commitment. Unfortuantly for him, i don't deal well with people who can't just be honest. Sooo.. advice for you guys.. don't piss off an italian.