My boyfriend did something really dumb and now my trust is broken
As the title suggests- my boyfriend has done something in the past few days thats totally blind sided me. He's an anti drugs guy and has always thoughts people who did drugs were stupid. I am a nearly qualified counsellor and have already seen enough of the damaging effects of drug use; So i was absolutely mortified when an aneasthetic gas, known to give users a lasting high shows up in the mail for my partner.
He works on a mine production site and the last few lots of apprentices to be hired are useless to say the least. All of them, heavily into party drugs that will not show up on the random tests required to work on the site. I am disgusted that my boyfriend has become such a sheep and would purchase something with potentially serious neurological consequences online. Needless to say, this caused a fight that has lasted 3 long days now. As he did not use the product, i put it away with out his knowledge and he has not asked about it again.
The arguement was starting to resolve until he messaged me today saying he might go camping with these guys this weekend (hes never hung out with them outside work other than when i was in bali and he got insanely drunk to spite me) i replied saying it was his decision but think its a bad idea after constantly fighting this week. I feel like if he goes it will cause more issues because 1, last time he was with them he was stupid and spiteful and 2, theyve just influenced him to buy drugs online how can i possibly trust him/ them?
Im so furious but trying to hide it because an outburst will push him into going no questions asked. I feel like hes changed because of these losers and is pushing me out of his life. I feel im the model girlfriend with my patience and kindness towards him. Hes walking over me and i just want to explode. How can i convince him to stay home and work things out with me with out being direct. Men hate conversation and confrontation so everything needs to be so delicate other wise he will get pissed off and go.