About a year ago me and my wife split up following a pretty crapy year which included a miscarriage, I lost my job and a few other things. We spent that year blaming each other for our problems. So I decided enough was enough and left we had no children together so i thought the time was right. After several months apart i started to see another woman and i really liked her but in the end i finished because i did not think i was being fair to her. Then decided to give it another go with my wife. To cut a long story short i cant stop thinking about the other woman. Its bn about 6 months since i last saw her but i think about her all the time. I struggle being intimate with my wife and i know im not being fair to her but i still do love my wife. But why cant i stop thinking about other woman ?