Mind Games?
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29 days ago
Advice really, Ive been with this guy 4 months, and everything was going fine until recently. He now hardly texts me, calls me and I only see him once or twice a week, he is a busy man, but feeling like his lost interest! When I am with him its fine, its just when I'm not. He's marrage ended last summer, and it was a long one, wondering if its that.....
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Hear hear
Getting over a long term relationship, even when you have no feelings for your ex, can be hard. I was married for two years, but with my ex six years, and my current bf was with his ex for 10 years, and it took us both quite a bit of time, things were rocky at first.
You need to have a chat with him, and explain in a gently way, that you are a bit concerned for how things have been.. how you want to be with him, but how you feel you both need to work on this problem, and that if he feels bad about his ex still, that it is ok and understandable and you will support him with it until he feels better, so long as he understands how you feel about things and is there for you a little more.. even though he works, if he could just communicate with you a little more then it would be alot better.