Jealousy of partners past relationship[s
Was wondering if anybody could help. Im currently in a relationship with a woman who has recently seperated froma 16 year marriage. We have been seeing each other since june now and has been getting very serious and talk of moving in together when she finally sells tha marital home that she is currently living in. She has had 2 kids with him and totally understand the need to have to maintain contact and being civil with him. This guy has not said the most pleasent of things bout me and has accused me of all sorts behind my back. There is a signifiacant age difference in the relationship. I get on with all the rest of her family which is whats important i guess. My main problem really comes from the paranoid idea that she might want to get back with this guy some day. I have no reason to think this but the thought creeps in nonetheless and makes me feel ashamed that i dont trust her. I just dont feel good enough for her sometimes, i dont have the best opf jobs and am currently looking for another. I also hate it when she talks about ANY of her past that may involve her ex, it really turns my stomach. these are paranoid jealous thoughts that i could do without as i really want this relationship to work and worry that one day i may say or do something that would end. Anyone have any advice?