Jealousy issues with bf
Ive been with my bf for almost 9 years, and although i've always been a jealous person i feel like its now getting out of hand. Just some background info... Years ago I found out he was having an inappropriate relationship with another girl from university (texting, emailing innuendos etc) although he promised that he never cheated. We got over this and that was that. However, i think maybe this hasn't helped with the way i am now...
I always check his Facebook (he doesnt know that i know his password) and ive recently seen emails to friends where he posts pictures of other girls etc, which drives me nuts, especially when he's adamant that he doesnt check out other girls!!....are all men like this and should i just accept that thats what men do?!
I get paranoid if there is good looking girl in the room that i know would be his 'type', i'm sure i catch him looking several times although he has denied this!
I am paranoid that he goes on nights out because he knows certain females will be there.
I have barely even looked at another guy in 9 years...except famous ones! so it drives me nuts to think that he has feelings towards other girls, flirts etc.
Am i going nuts?! any advice from people who have been in a similar situation would be appreciated. Thank you.