It hurts so much, i can't let go!
I have been with my partner for 3 years with 2 children. I have fallen in love with someone else(call him T). I have been in love with him for about a year. Things haven't always been great between me and my partner but we stay together because of the children. 'T' has now got a new girlfriend because he thought i wasn't interested anymore as i am still with my partner. 'T' and his girlfriend both work at the same place as me. It hurts so bad to see them together and because of this, i really don't want to love him anymore and to get over him. It's making my job more difficult too.
However, i cant get him out of my head, i really love him and wish we were together. Its made things more difficult between me and my partner and I've drifted apart from him. I don't want to leave my partner because of the children but i so desperately want to be with 'T'. I'm scared that if i leave my partner then 'T' still won't want to be with me. I don't want to lose him because i can't let go! Please help!! What should i do????