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It hurts so much, i can't let go!
I have been with my partner for 3 years with 2 children. I have fallen in love with someone else(call him T). I have been in love with him for about a year. Things haven't always been great between me and my partner but we stay together because of the children. 'T' has now got a new girlfriend because he thought i wasn't interested anymore as i am still with my partner. 'T' and his girlfriend both work at the same place as me. It hurts so bad to see them together and because of this, i really don't want to love him anymore and to get over him. It's making my job more difficult too.
However, i cant get him out of my head, i really love him and wish we were together. Its made things more difficult between me and my partner and I've drifted apart from him. I don't want to leave my partner because of the children but i so desperately want to be with 'T'. I'm scared that if i leave my partner then 'T' still won't want to be with me. I don't want to lose him because i can't let go! Please help!! What should i do????
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If you want to save your relationship I would consider looking for another job. It's the only way you're going to be able to let go of T, distance in NECESSARY... If you want to be with T and no longer want to work it out with your husband I would talk to T about it before making any hasty decisions. Have you been intimate with T, are you sure you're not just addicted or infatuated with T or the idea of him?
Either way things cannot continue as they are it sounds mentally and emotionally draining and it's not healthy for you to go through this situation on a daily basis.