is it going anywhere?
I have been with my girlfriend for 4 odd years, shes 26 and i am 31. We have had no issues when it comes to sharing and how much we care for each other.Initially when we decided to have a relationship it was clear we will have obstacles, mainly the fact that i am a Buddhist and she is a Christian. She always said that we will have issues once she breaks it to her parents because they insist she marries a Christian, whereas my parents have no issue about it at all. She is yet to approach her folks and have been delaying it for various reasons, her financial situation, her career. I want her to take the next step and let her parents know i exist in her life, i just don't know how to make her feel comfortable to make this happen. She says that she wants to spend the rest of her life with me but the constant delaying is making me ask questions and i do not want to put her under pressure. When ever i bring it up, she gets angry and the whole conversation is blown out of proportion and she ends up saying i screw up the moment. Yes she has finance issues as she has a spending habit which she cant breakaway from no matter how many people advice her. I want to fix this, and i don't know how