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Making a Commitment

I'm in a relationship with this guy for around 5 months. We meet online in a marriage/dating site. From the beginning both of our intentions were clear, we wanted to get to know each other for marriage. We live in different countries so we have a long distance relationship. We chated, web chated and called minimum 3 days a week and when we didn't have the chance because of the time differences we emailed. We met each others families over the web. He had a vacation all sorted up for himself before we meet for 5 months later (that's now), he canceled his whole trip accept one (a two week stay at his friends house in France and that's because he promised him he'd visit a year before, his friend is happily married with 2 children) and instead got a flight to my country.
So now here is my problem, from the time he's gone to France to see his friend he hasn't been in contact with me as much as before. He contacted me 4 days after he arrived in France cause he didn't have internet connection!!! I complained and asked if there wasn't a phone either and he apologized and said his mother always got angry because of not calling to! even though we had that talk from the time he's in France (2 weeks) he's texted me 2 or 3 times and very shortly like it's out of obligation more than him wanting to call. What does it mean? is he not interested any more but can't say it or are men really inconsiderate on a trip? what should I be thinking???