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I'm so heartbroken, want my fella to want me back
Me and my boyfriend have been together almost three years, we have had the most amazing relationship in the world. He is the most amazing guy any women could ever meet. At the start of our relationship I was very insecure, then I wasn't then he was. And now it's me. For the past 2 n half yrs he has done everything in his power to make me smile and make me happy. Apsolutley everything!! I have taken him for granted a lot and I very much regret it. I have only just realised with him leaving me how much I took him for granted and how much I am very sorry for doing it :-( he's my whole world. He's done everything for me....always spent his time with me, never went out got drunk, bought me everything I the world, picked me up at half 9 after I finished work. He has done so much. Two week ago he went to a football match and I wanted him to ring me but he didn't, he did text me though. But I didn't drop it :-( I had a go and got very nasty. The day after he told me he wanted time to miss and want me :( broke my heart, I am really lost and shattered. I have left him for almost three weeks now and he dosnt miss me :( he keeps sending mixed messages, one saying he misses me, loves me, asking of I'm ok, telling me he loves me! Then today he texted saying he wants to sort things but dosnt no wether the damage has been done already :-( I am breaking into pieces just the though of my love don't love or miss or want me bk. I haven't kissed him to three weeks, not slept with him, held him or seen him :-( he keeps saying he wants time he needs time. Who needs this much time away from the perso they say they love? I am so I love with him an I cannot loose him. I have changed and got so much to prove to him. I just need him to realise!! Will he ever realise??? :-( I have booked two nights in the lakes in the most luxerious hotel I could find. Spa in our room, sauna, double spa bath.... So I can just show him how much I love him. And I don't think he will come ;-( that's in four five weeks time :-( I need help cos im going out of my mind. Thanks
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Would very much appreciate any feedback
Spending money wont win him back. Maybe not even words. Show him you've changed, not im a text or phone call. Let him see what he's missing and how much you're willing to do to keep him. I hope this helps.
I found writing a diary of ur feeling helps to unload the weight of your shoulders.. U need to do as he asks and give him some time to realise he misses u as I made the very mistake of constantly getting in touch with my ex and a year down the line we still don't talk! Maybe in a weeks time when u have gathered ur thoughts maybe txt and say are you free to meet for a drink and a chat and talk about what u have realised or maybe even posting the diary to him to show what uve been through and what it could be like etc
Hope that helps.. Just really think before u act before it gets to my level (see post.. I want my ex back :( )