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I'm in love with my boyfriend but I have a huge crush...
Please help me... I need support... I've been with my Boyfriend for 5 years now, we love each other and I couldn't picture a life without him. It would kill me to decide not to see him again, we really connect... Then there's this friend of ours I always thought of him as a friend, but since he's been giving me karate lessons I started to like him and to always think about him, Day and night, night and day... I always hope he teaches me something where I feel his skin against mine... uuuuffff it's so hard... I really love my boyfriend with all of myself I swear! Our Sex life isn't one of the nicest he's not really the man with the nicest body but I love him for his inner part and I think we are really meant to be together... What shpuld I do???
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Well, you've got itchy feet and that is perfectly normal in any relationship. We are all tempted by buff other people from time to time, but being committed means that although we are tempted we get over it! So really it depends whether you want the relationship with your bf to go on working, if so you will look away from the other guy, and stop having karate lessons with him as you are just putting yourself in a vulnerable position. However, if this is indicating your relationship with your bf has run its course, you need to be honest with him and break it off before you contemplate the other guy. It is your decision, good luck, let us know how you get on.
Well what I did is: I told my BF that I needed a break because I wanted to make some experience while we're still young and because I had a crush on someone else... He didn't take it very good, but as we live in the same house he has to accept it... Then a friend of ours told the guy I have a crush on that I like him... And gladly enough he likes me too!!!! So we're starting to go out together... But there's still the problem that they are friends... so we're keeping it all a secret... Quite a difficult situation...