I was with my ex boyfriend for 3 and a half
years and last may decided to call it of as
we were arguing a lot as I had a career
change and he was going through uni exams.. I
will admit I was swayed to my decision as
another guy showed me attention and shortly
after I got in a relationship with him
We were together for a few months until I
realised I had made the biggest mistake
ending it with **** and wanted him back more
than anything.. By then it was too late and
he was with someone else and they have been
together a year now
I really thought I was over **** but I can't
stop thinking about him and how different
things would be now but we don't talk at all
as things got a bit messy towards the end..
I'm so upset and down.. Help?!?

The last contact we had was last year and he
then changed his number.. I messaged him via
Facebook back in march just a lighthearted
message to see if we could sort things out
and be civil as I don't go out partying where
I think him and his mates may be as I'm
worried what they would say/do and he didn't
reply