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I Love My Boyfriend, But I'm Not In Love With Him

User-anonymous
Posted by: Anonymous
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Sat 16, Jun 2012 at 12:09am
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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Making a Commitment

Hi all,
So I am in a new relationship (two months coming up) and I'm a little confused on how I am feeling/"should" be feeling. He's a really great guy and we get along really really well most of the time. We have a lot of the same interests, and he's super sweet and treats me well. I love spending time with him, as in road trips etc, and the sex is amazing.

What I don't understand is, that I love him, but I'm not IN LOVE with him. I know he's "in love" with me, but I just don't feel that special spark. He often annoys me (just little things)and I find myself unsatisfied with many aspects of well, simply... Him. I don't want to change him, because hes a great guy. I suppose I feel bad because I don't feel a deep connection with him and I don't know how long it will last unless I start to feel that as well. Is this normal? I don't want to hurt him, but I'm afraid I will eventually have no choice.

Thanks guys!

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  • User-anonymous Anonymous Flag

    Tell him to slow down

    Sun 17, Jun 2012 at 2:30am
  • User-anonymous Anonymous Flag

    I'm sorry, this comment really didn't help me at all. It doesn't even really address my main problem...

    Sun 17, Jun 2012 at 2:05pm
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