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I have a boyfriend but I like someone else
I've been dating my current boyfriend for about three years, I love him with ALL me heart and would die for him, but about a month ago met this new guy and we've been texting and hanging out and I really really like him. I get butterflies around this new guy and I haven't had butterflies around my currently boyfriend in a long time. The other issue is I have a future with my boyfriend, we've talked about marriage and kids so I know I am safe with him. But this other guy is in my mind 24/7, I dream of him, when I wake up he's the first thing I think of and I get so jealous when I see him flirt with other girls. The worst part is this new guy has told me he likes me. He doesn't want me to break up with my boyfriend because he knows he'll treat me right and marry me. (My crush doesn't believe in marriage and has trust issues) basically as I write this I know what I should do. Stay with my boyfriend who I love. But I cry over my crush every night when I know we can't be together and I can't have him. I just need someone to talk to because I can't tell anyone here. I have no one. Please help me.
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when you have been with someone for quite awhile things can seem to become predictable and dull. Temptation is a bitch and I have been there. I nearly cheated on my long term boyfriend with a very flirty guy who wasnt realy my type anyway, I knew he was a womaniser but I cudnt stop thinking about him because it was nice knowing that someone found me attractive but I resisted and glad that I did. I love my boyfriend and have got 2 very beautiful daughters to him.