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how to brake up with my boyfriend?

User-anonymous
Posted by: Anonymous
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Sat 22, Sep 2012 at 6:25pm

I'll try to keep this short, when I started college I fell for another guy. We have so much more in common and I felt comfortable with him after a couple of days (which is a big deal for me because i have social anxiety and its hard for me to talk to people).

I have only been with him for about a month but I know I need to brake up with him, it's not fair for me to stay with him when i know i have stronger feelings for someone else.

The problem I have is that since he was my first boyfriend I have no idea how to brake up with him, I get really nervous just thinking about it and I don't want to hurt his feelings any more than I have to.

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  • User-anonymous Anonymous Flag

    You sound certain that you want to break up with your first boyfriend. If that is the case it is best to be honest with him...explain to him how you feel . Sometimes it is easier to write something you feel nervous about in a letter...it allows you to think about the way you are expressing it...so that you can take his feelings into account I'd rather someone broke up with me that stay because they were too afraid to break up...wouldn't you?

    Mon 24, Sep 2012 at 9:57pm
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