How to approach the lack of sex issue
My wife and I no longer have regular sex (once every 1-2 months at best). It has been gradually going this way since she fell pregnant with our 1st child 4 years ago and has gradually gotten worse. She has no sex drive any more whilst I still have a high sex drive. I have coped with the problem but recently I've been getting more and more frustrated. I tell her how sexy she is and cuddle and kiss her without sex being on the agenda. I am going to talk to her about this and hope that we can resolve things but if the worst happens and she says she just doesn't want sex any more then I will have a decision to make. If she does say this I am considering suggesting I use prostitutes. Its not something I've ever done before but as a way of resolving the problem so that we are both happy I think it would be a good solution. We otherwise have a good relationship and still enjoy being together but the sex issue is causing me some concern and I don't want to risk our marriage when a fairly simple solution is available. What do you all think?