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I was with my ex for nearlly a year ave know him for two we are always on and off he lives far away and says he wants me when hes back he cheated on me and everything but its all forgoton we speak all the time and he says he loves me and i say i love him we sleep together when i see him a dont sleep with any one else iwant it to work but we just argue and stuff when w say were in a relationship but if we say were friends we act like a proper couple? ive tried to move on we both have but we keep going back ?


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Sounds like you do have something worth working on if you keep going back to each other - do you think one or both of you are frightened of commitment, things seem to work better when you "label" the relationship as just friendship? Could you talk it through with him when you are both feeling calm and loving, and decide how much commitment you are both comfortable with at the moment, and maybe then just take it easy and see what happens? Sounds like you are stressing a lot about this when you should both just be enjoying being with each other. Good luck with talking, let us know how you get on.