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Help with my boyfriend! Please!
So here is the situation. I have been with my boyfriend for a year, we have lived together for 6 months and things are usually great. The problem is his ex wife. She has no boundaries, she comes over and hang out in my house, even spends the night when I'm not home. My boyfriend swears she sleeps on the couch but he didn't used to when we were first together an I'm not sure i believe him. I don't think he is sleeping with her or I would leave him. My biggest concern is that he wants to go out of town for the weekend with her in a couple weeks. Just them. I'm not invited apparently and I'm NOT okay with it. He's angry with me for telling him that I'm not comfortable with it if I can't go. Am I being unreasonable?? I'm not sure what to do.
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To be perfectly honest he's having the best of both worlds there. Why would he even let her stay over when you're not there! You're not being unreasonable at all. Try sitting him down and have a mature conversation about it, don't raise your voice or anything, just tell him how it makes you feel and ask him to think about he would feel if the boot was in the other foot and that was you doing it to him. If he gets irate about it for nothing when you're being calm about it, you know he's hiding something, if he tries making YOU feel guilty, again you know he's hiding something. Just try and be strong and get the courage to confront him. X