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Money, Work, Becoming a Parent, Bringing up Children Together

Hi i need help.

ive been together with my partner for three years now, we have a 1 year old son who i absolutaly love and adore.
But i just dont know what to do, i work 45 hours a week barely making enough to pay rent bills and food, we strugle on a month to month basis.
Im trying to make the most of my life i want a house nice car, family but she wants another child and when i say no she starts shouting and we dont talk for a day or two,
this is really hard because my son is involved, when we met 3 years ago i dont know why but i just feel in love with her, we have no intrests the same or come from the same background.
both my parents worked all there life she lost her dad and her mum just sat on her backside reaping in benefits and im worried that she has grown up with that attertuide,
she is lazy i come home from work dishes are still there from the night before house is a mess she litrally does nothing and im being serious.
we have had conversations before about how lazy she was it just turns into an arguement that she has the baby all day. she makes no effort, i even try barginin with her ill do this on tues wed thurs
you do it the other days but that dosent even work.

I work 7 till 5 every day mon-fri i come home watch the baby give him his tea play with him, put him to bed, we then eat tea, then im in kitchen doing dishes putting rubish out putting a wash on and out on the madien.
while she sits and watches telly.

I know that if we ever did split up she would let me have him for the weekends, we have spoke about this in the past when we were on the edge.

So like i said we have no intrests at all the same, shes lazy, she wants another child when i dont know where the money will come from, and i just dont know if i love her anymore.

What would you do? does anyone have any advice on how i could help make a decision?

n.b Sorry if this is not easy to understand my english is not to good.