Have I made the right choice?
So after weeks / months of debating it with myself I finally decided to end my relationship of nearly 3 years last night. There were a few reasons, nothing major like cheating, but just issues that I could only see getting bigger over time.
I was finally certain about my decision, although immediately before I did it I did have a bit of a panic thinking am I doing the right thing, but told myself this is normal before making any major decision. My boyfriend said he had known things weren't right but was devastated, he said he loves me so much and can't imagine living without me. It was so tempting to take it all back there and then.
I was expecting to find it hard, but thought I'd feel some kind of sense of relief or knowledge that I'd done the right thing. However right now I just feel unbelievably awful and quite sick at the thought of never being with him again - I almost feel like he's dumped me! Is it normal to feel like this when you leave someone or do these feelings indicate that I've made the wrong choice?