Hi everywhere one. I decided to seek advice here because I want to save my relationship with my fiance.
The problem is, we have 2 girls. We are happy and will be celebrating our anniversary soon. But well, his jobless as of now. Ever since The start of this year his been slacking of, his been in 3 different jobs since then.
I don't know how to help him. It upsets me that we, his family can't motivate him to do better. Like his somehow lost. He said he wanted to work hard for us, but when he does work two jobs, his health fails him. And when he has one job, he gets disappointed of his paycheck amount. Now he can't find a job when we really needed, it stressful. We are almost gonna loose everything. I know seperating is not the solution, but how do I understand him? And how to make him motivated?