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Ejaculating during foreplay

User-anonymous
Posted by: Anonymous
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Fri 10, Mar 2017 at 11:16pm
Categories:
Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner, Life transitions
Tags:
Relationships,teenager,make out,ejaculation,cum,girlfriend,sex

I'm a 16 year old boy and I've been with a girl for a while and we've began getting pretty intimate. We've been making out a lot and have seen each other topless. It's our first time doing anything like this and we're crazy for each other

However I've noticed that during our make out sessions and when we get pretty intimate with each other I find that I cum but aren't entirely sure if it's 'precum' or the full thing. I'm insecure about it and feel like less of a man for it

I have a few questions about this.

Is this normal for a boy whose never done this stuff in the past?
Is it anything I should be worried about for my future sex life?
Is there anything I can do to prevent this from happening anymore?

I'd really appreciate any feedback and answers

Thanks guys

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  • Cc admin Flag

    Yes, it's normal and yes there are things you can do to prevent it in the future. During these early sexual experiences, it's understandable you're excited and you're still learning and, generally, it's only a problem if it bothers you or your partner. The good news is that you can do something about it - it's mostly about getting to know your body, understanding your own signals, and learning to slow things down internally. The fact that you want to do something about it is a good sign - is it something you'd feel comfortable talking to your partner about?

    There are some specific tips here that you might want to try:
    http://www.nhs.uk/chq/pages/3055.aspx?categoryid=118&subcategoryid=120
    http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/conditions/sexual-health/a2233/premature-ejaculation/

    Mon 13, Mar 2017 at 10:22am

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