i'm due to be married in december. my best friend is a guy who i have known longer than my fiance. we hang out a couple of times a week and always have a laugh and joke together. before i got with my fiance he used to spend a lot of time here. we met up today for our usual coffee and gossip and he told me he wants me to break up with my fiance. he said i always seem happier when its just me and him and he said he's liked me for a long time, just hasn't known how to say it. i'm 28 and he's 19 but neither of us has issues with the age gap. i just feel its about time i settled down and started a family. i cant ask him to do that while he's so young though and i dont have long left if i want to start a family due to medications i have to take. i dont know what to do. together they make the perfect guy but i dont know which one to choose. i love my fiance but he has increasingly been getting on my nerves just lately. he spends the majority of his time on the xbox and i like to go out and do things.