Breadcrumbs or excuses to talk to me..
My ex and I dated for 2 years and then we had 1 year of that on and off confusing relationship.I told my ex I did not want to talk or see him because I got tired of the games and being disrespected. I was very angry at the time and harsh. So I wrote him a more civil letter saying I'm letting go. And if the time is right he can come find me. I thought the letter was really nice and I felt like I could finally move forward. And I felt really good not talking to him and realized I like being alone and not being this sad and different person before I made this step. I see him the next day ( we live in the same neighborhood). Since I didn't want to be rude I say hi and we had a short conversation. That was the last time I saw him. Then a couple days later he texts me this picture of me and this guy that I did a photoshoot with. He asked me my option of the picture since the way I presented myself looked in spirits even to him and I stupidly texted back and we got in a arguement. I said some things I didn't mean so I thought he would just leave me alone now. Then exactly a week later he texts me says he sells mj and to text him if I needed any. And texts me again when he was all out. He's been instituted ontact with me. Then something really serious happened with me and the law. I know if there are any hardships I should get used to not coming to him. But i felt at my lowest point at the moment and I called him anyway telling him what happened. I know I shouldn't of. He couldn't talk long because he was busy but at the end f the convo. He said he would talk to me later and I said goodbye. Is he giving me breadcrumbs? And yes I know it was bad for me to break no contact but I'm gonna keep moving forward. Why would he continue to contact me after I said all that stuff?