Affair or not?
2 yrs ago I was out seeing my son and came home to find my husband texting with his ex-wife, they were telling each other how much they loved one another and how she couldn't wait to have him next to her naked in bed, I confronted him and we seemed to be working things out ( or thought we have been working things out, we have been married 16 yrs now). he promised me that he would never talk to her again! all this time hes been telling me he hasn't talked to her cause he doesn't want to lose us. (REALLY?)so I was just starting to trust him again and then he went on a trip cause he is a truck driver. I was doing laundry went to get his dirty clothes from his bag and found a go phone that he had bought so that the could keep talking to her without me knowing,( I was crushed )He had bought the go phone within a month of telling me he would never talk to her again. I didn't eat for 5 days and cant sleep either. Apparently he said he needed to vent but was talking to her about all aspects of our life together, still telling her he loves her. I feel he cheated on me! I'm at a-loss for words or even what to do. Is it right that he is doing this?