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Hey guys, so I've been with this guy on and off for 5 years. We split massively Becuase it just wasn't working. We was split for several Months. We never spoke or saw each other util my mum got really ill and nearly died then he appeared and was there....he had always seen my mum as his mum so I would of been suprised it he hadn't been. Anyway him me n loads of mates went to a weeks rave abroad that had been booked from before we split. We started sleeping together but he told me he never wanted me back, so I started seeing someone else. Who I really liked and was extremely sexually active with. When he wanted us to go official my boyfriend decided he wanted me back. So we got back together.
Now 2 years on its the same problems piping up. He's so quiet and never talks which puts me on edge all the time! He is so bad with his money ...he gets paid more then me, has to pay out less then me and his wages are all still gone in less then 1day. N when people ask me what he does with his money I can't ever answer, he always slags my family off....I was diagnosed with social anxiety and it was a big thing for me and he wasn't really supportive. What herts me the most is that whenever he does something i always ask about it and he doesn't! So for example my dad is in a mental hospital and is about 2hours away from where I live. If I go and see him and come back he never says how was it at ur dads. That for me really hurts Becuase it's the little things that count! And also I can't stand having sex with him and whenever I ask him not to do something Becuase I don't like it he just doesn't listen. He also treats all our mates like shit and it makes me feel bad having to lie to them all the time for him.
I have tried talking to him and it just goes in one ear and out the other and then he complains about it when it gets mentioned Becuase I haven't told him!! Really need some advise on what to do! I love him but really am just getting to the end of my tether with him!
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Sorry to be blunt but this relationship seems to have run it's course-and I think you realise that. You say you love him but from all that you've written in your post it seems that you don't like or respect him much anymore. I hope you can move on to a relationship that is mutually fulfilling and loving. Let us know how things are for you.
Thanks for ur comment. It's just the little things that don't take a lot of effort that get to me like, he never asks me what I've done with my day or weather I've had a good day.
I make a decision not to be with him then he does something that makes me think well yea I do love him n am just being silly. Then he goes n fucks it all again. I just don't kno anymore.