Cookies on The Couple Connection: The couple connection uses cookies to ensure that we give you the best experience on our website. If you continue to use the couple connection, we will assume that you are happy to receive all cookies from this site.

advice please

Posted by: Anonymous
Sat 7, Jan 2017 at 3:48pm
Making a Commitment, Living Apart Together

My ex-boyfriend and I were together for 5 years. We are currently still seeing each other off and on. I would like to work things out but it feels like he is just using me for sex and money. He often ignores my texts and calls, says he doesn't get them. He does live in an area with sketchy service. I believe he has started lying to me now. He refuses to discuss the relationship (or arrangement). Should I just give up? Or should I withhold sex and money and see if he still comes around? He says he wants to wait and see what happens, but if no effort is being put into a relationship I don't see where anything will happen. Just confused and hurt at this point. I cannot tolerate being lied to.

  This was of help to 0% of people  


The Listening Room

What is this?

The Listening Room is now closed until further notice. Please post your query on the Forum for peer to peer support.