I have been with my girlfriend 17 months and i am totally in love with her, i can really see myself spending the rest of my life with her. the only thing is i have a hobby that takes many wknds and when im not around she goes out n i come to see her on a monday and find missed calls from lads and texts from lads who have been there. i think i maybe being paranoid but i really feel she likes having male attention and flirts with all ages of guys. i get to the point where im not able to sleep worrying bout things. i dont no if i should be more relaxed and jus try to meet with more old friends and end things with her. i have spent many nights very upset imagining being without her so i dont no if i could do this even if it may be the best thing. I dont no what to do as i dont have anyone who i can talk to which makes things even harder than they probs need to be so could anyone give me some advice please.
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Tuck on 16 June 2009 at 8:28pm said...
Listen to yourself. You love this woman, she isn't cheating on you as far as you know, and you're thinking of breaking up with her? Talk to her! Tell her how you feel. Don't accuse her - just talk it out.
Or if she's as important to you as all that, think of cutting back on the hobby or involving her in it. But ultimately you need to be able to do your separate things without your feeling all insecure. So talk.
Good luck.