We have been together 7 yrs now and for the last 3yrs the physical side has dissappeared, we have disussed it and she says she doesnt know why
- i have suggested a counsellor for us both but apparently thats embarrasing !!
She said she was alwas tired so now i do all the cooking and tiding up but nothing has improved, i dont want to call it a day but need to know it will improve.................
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reee on 16 November 2008 at 8:32pm said...
Do you have children? Do you have things to look forward to ie, holidays etc..
What about working and stuff
Anonymous on 17 November 2008 at 3:20pm said...
Hiya, the best tip I've got, is that as well as helping round the house and all that, affection, a hug, holdng hands etc. can be wonderfful. My husband an I went through a patch of no sex for the last month, and having that affection really helped us to come back together this weekend! I wouldn't say that our drought is over, but at least there's been a shower!
Angela on 18 November 2008 at 6:43pm said...
Hi
If you would like to click on the Related articles at the side of this page - Introduction to sex and romance - Sex - you will find additional articles that may have some useful information for you. There may also be something there that will help you to understand more of what might be going on for your partner. It is not unusual for one partner to lose the appetite for sex and this then can have a significant impact on the other partner and on the relationship.
You say that you have talked - well done here - and she does not know why this is happening. Perhaps she would talk to the Practice Nurse or GP - a person who is trained to understand these changes and the feelings that she may be experiencing. Sometimes the reason can be relatively simple. You too could talk to your GP or Practice Nurse to support you and help you as you support your partner.
I do hope that together you can work it out.