If i find out my husband is still in touch with his ex girlfriend via emails...planning a meeting and expressing love for each other. Do you think i should email his ex and warn her to stay away from my husband? She has been married and has 3 children. She was sleeping with my husband behind her husband's back. My husband was single at that time. I want to know what her intentions are and i think the only way i will find out is if i email her and threaten to let her husband know about her affair. Am i right?
What should i do? Please help.
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Sadwife on 08 March 2010 at 7:43am said...
You should confront your husband, not his ex. He made a committment to you. She did not. He is the one who is violating your trust. It is unacceptable for your husband to be expressing his love for another person.
Anonymous on 08 March 2010 at 1:29pm said...
Thank you. I would confront my husband but he is so hot tempered that he will somehow twist the conversation and accuse me of being jealous. He has repeatedly told me to work on my jealousy issue everytime i caught him doing something wrong.
Anway, I took a first big step today and contacted a marriage counselor. I really hope that i can express my feelings and confront my husband for his wrongdoing in front of a counselor. I tried my best talking to him in the past and now i think he needs to hear it from someone else.
Anonymous on 08 March 2010 at 2:54pm said...
The gall of the man work on "jealousy issues" while I just go and rekindle my ex love yeah sweeet ! Not Why are you doing all the work email that woman and stand up for yourself ! Be brave and just do it ! You deserve better