Ok so i have been dating this girl for almost a year and we have been friends for about four years. We are now in a long distance relationship because I have graduated and got a job. We live about three hours away from each other. I drive down about every other week to see her unless I have to study for an upcoming certification exam. She has only came down for the purpose of seeing me once.
So two night ago, Saturday, a friend invites me to come over to a wine and cheese party. Originally, I wasn't sure who was going to go, but when I go there I know most of the people there. She said jokingly that I was only allowed to talk to ugly girls. It was one of those type of things that she says it jokingly but you can tell she was serious. This is maybe the 3rd time that I even went out with any mixed company friends without her. I have changed the closeness of some of my friends for her, but she doesn't know that I have done that though.
Last night we have a conversation and she says that she doesn't trust me. She said she doesn't know why. I done NOTHING to deserve distrust. She says she loves me and wants to marry me, but how can you do any of this if you don't trust me. I was actually looking at rings over the weekend, but if she doesn't trust me what is the point of continuing the relationship? We are in a long distance relationship and without trust we have nothing.
I have no idea how to rectify this situation because I'm actually really pissed off right now. Any suggestions?
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Anonymous on 22 February 2010 at 9:25pm said...
You are right if you don't have trust then you don't have nothing esp when you havent done anything too lose trust, To me if anyone has distrust when you havent done anything too me they are the one hinding something maybe mention that to her and see or depending on how you feel your relationship has maybe run it's course.